I’m never offended when my kid isn’t invited to a wedding, weddings are super pricey and it is not about me it’s about what the couple wants, it’s not my call at all!

They may give a break but it can complicate things, it all depends on the caterer and in general kids like pizza, though at my wedding the kids just ate the chicken like everyone else, I didn’t think about pizza until after.

Of course there are a million ways to do a wedding (or party, which is all a wedding really is). I used to work at a B&B and help plan weddings.

No I’m suggesting that EVERYONE does their wedding their way. 100 kids is insane for sure.

OMG you were 20 not 2!!! Good call not going!

It’s your wedding and it should be your way!

:-) I am very glad we included kids, having a bunch of my husband’s little cousins dance with me is still an amazing memory 18 years later!

I know each person costs money but when guests go and see some kids when their kids weren’t invited it often leaves a bad taste so accommodating all kids is best imho but AGAIN everyone should do their wedding their way and NO ONE should criticize the couple about their choices.

I don’t even know what Magic Mike is. (not kidding)

Everyone should do their wedding their way and NO ONE should ever say anything negative to the couple about their wedding, that’s tacky!

I really really didn’t want kids at my wedding because I wanted it to be all “grown up”, but as soon as I saw how my husband felt I knew I needed to make it work (Tim Gunn) and I did :-)

I don’t know why breastfeeding at the table would even be an issue. To me, any child that small would obviously be with the mom.

I mean it’s just my personal taste re: what’s rude. I think you include all or none but that’s me and I support couples doing as they like for their weddings, destination wedding??!! Sure go for it, theme wedding?? Go ahead and dress up..whatever floats your boat.

That’s awesome!!! I want to come!

Sounds like a fun time for all!! Kids don’t like fancy long dinners and it’s insane to pay restaurant prices for food kids will pick over!

Have a wonderful wedding! :-)

A happy divorce is better than a mediocre marriage!

I just personally feel it’s rude to your other guests if you invite some kids but not all, but it’s your day and I defer to the No. 1 rule about weddings which is that the couple should decide what they want and NO ONE should complain!

A faux wedding sounds like a fun thing too, maybe have stuffed animal ‘guests” too. I really love throwing kid parties!

Then their precious kids could stay at home.