Um, can we have sex, now?

Contrary to stereotypes, I think the same holds true for men, as well. Sex wants are like fingerprints. Completely unique to each individual. Except me because I’ll take anything since I’m hideous and desperate.

I feel like you have to be wearing the Rex Kwon Do flag pants to say your entire post outloud.

The best piece of advice I see in the article is the one that can’t be taught, and that is get into it and enjoy it. Some guys find going down on their partner to be a chore and possibly slightly gross. But if you view oral sex as a part of sex and not a prelude to it then the results can be fantastic. I totally get…

Yes. So much that.

Yeah, too many people think “don’t stop” means “faster!”

I feel like I nearly beat my boyfriend over the head like “don’t move do exactly that DO NO FUCKING MOVE”

For me, 20 min from first point of arousal seems reasonable. This doesn’t mean first point of partner contact.

LOL. You’ve got some convincing ladies on your hands.

But there’s one thing, above all else, that you should remember as she gets close to orgasm: do not change what you’re doing in terms of routine and pacing.

More than not, I find 20 minutes laughable. Maybe I just give head to really shortfused women :p

Is there a link to the “average 20 minutes to orgasm” stats? Because, of the women I’ve been with, only one has taken that long (though to be fair I was only 19 and really didn’t know what I was doing). The average for the women I’ve been with, if you exclude that outlier and my ex-wife, is 5-7 minutes for the first…

Kerner recommends watching and listening to her reactions to find what works best, but there’s another old standby that works just as well (if not better): ask your partner! If they know what they like, they’ll probably gladly tell you. And if you two haven’t become comfortable talking about sex yet, we’ve written…