I’m 22 and I think it’s creepy as hell, so...

I’m finally on time for SNS and it’s the end of all things! I hope Jezebel doesn’t change too much. I’m a lurker but I have a secret, lurkey love for y’all.

Garden thread ! These are just of the few of the tomatoes and red peppers we harvested this week.. I’ve been gardening my whole life and never had a crop this bountiful. I guess our timing and technique have been perfected over the years. I’ve been slow cooking a batch of marinara with the San Marzano’s all day.

I ordered a makeup holder to organize my makeup. Now, I'm on an organize kick. I got another thing for my skincare products and my toothbrush. I'm planning to get a thing for my bedroom. It's weird,

Currently snorting my birth control off of the back of a bar toilet while googling clinics that perform hysterectomies on otherwise healthy 30-year-olds.

Halp! Why would you push the baby back in like that? Holy hell why? Is that normal? Does it fucking work like that?

I would give up any romantic relationship before I'd give up my kids. This is so fucked. In every way.

It makes me really uncomfortable that nobody seems to be saying much about the fact that he’s so much younger and how that makes him extra vulnerable. Nineteen is technically an adult, but you’re still young an easy to take advantage of. Not you, but the conversation in general. I feel like people get blinded by the…

Peterson says, “Honestly I never thought we would get into trouble for our relationship.”

Trying not to judge. Trying not to judge. Oh fuck it, I’ll judge. No, no, no, no, dear God this is not ok. (Back to the Olympics. The women’s soccer team just took the lead!)

I think a lot of that mindset is cultural. I’m Mexican and it’s the norm to have grandma watch the kids for next to nothing while we go off to work. I don’t live near family and when I discussed daycare options for my child with my mom she was taken aback by it, as if it was an outlandish idea to take my child to…

A sick child like this is an enormous stressor for the most stable and secure of marriages. However, I’m sick to death of reading about entire families being wiped out by a man (presumably) who was under stress and/or abusive. A girl I grew up was murdered by her husband last year. He was apparently abusive for years.…

I just bought ‘Gone Girl’ at Goodwill (it was reserved FOREVER at our local library), so I’m happy. One author I would recommend HIGHLY is Tana French (your book title recommendation reminded me). Her mysteries are beautifully written and amazing.

Ink and Bone by Lisa Unger had a very gone girl vibe and I really enjoyed it.

idk if it counts as “beauty”, but I made two new dresses this month and I think I look pretty good so I’m posting them.

I need to find a brand of lip stain that really colors your lips and lasts through a workday. If one of these exists, will somebody let me know? Thank you! Also, I expect it to be a little pricey so I'm okay with that.

In summer I wear very little makeup ‘cause it won’t stay on in the Santa Fe heat, but! Just the other day there was a Kinja Deal advertising a Sephora twofer on the excellent Bite Beauty High Pigment lip pencils. So two of those are on the way! They really stay, for hours, and the colors are gorgeous. I got the…

I NEED AN UPDATE FROM THE PERSON LAST WEEK WITH THE TWO TIMIN BOYFRIEND ASSHOLE!!!! Sorry....I have been thinking about her allllllll week!

I can’t believe I’m actually awake late enough in the UK to participate in SNS for once, yay!!

I did something new with my hair. I’m debating about keeping it like this.