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That's a great idea! There aren't any food trucks in my area, but that's definitely something to keep in mind when visiting other areas.

Whew. Looks like Garnier is a L'Oreal line, so my miracle goop for curly hair is safe. Otherwise I'd have to buy out all of Amazon's stock and then cut a bitch. Messing with a curly's miracle goop is like messing with a black man's radio, for real.

This. I grew up working class and while I'm middle class now, I feel well and truly outclassed in any restaurant nicer than a Chili's or Applebees. Hell, even shopping at a higher end grocery store skeeves me out. I could date a foodie, that's fine, you do you, but I'd need my partner to understand and respect the

This is awesome to know, and may be the one thing that actually convinces me to try one of those contraptions.

I felt bad for him, too. He came off as someone who genuinely cared about her, and she came off as someone who was too defensive to hear what he was saying and/or someone who was too coolly logical to care. She certainly doesn't have to care about him as much as he cares about her, but being a decent person isn't all

I could've been clearer, I suppose. I think a lot of the ethics here depend on how well-matched people are. If sex isn't a big deal to you or your partner, have at it. But if sex is a big deal to one partner and not the other, then it gets complicated and I think people have a greater responsibility.

Sex is definitely a way of getting to know someone. But I think all people have a responsibility to be aware of how their actions affect other people's feelings. (No one's responsible for another person's feelings, of course, but I think it's disingenuous to completely disavow the relationship between your actions and

Personally, I think it works better when you have the woman doing something we've seen so often we assume it's sexy, then the man doing the same thing and it's not quite as sexy (in part because it was played for laughs, and in part because we haven't seen it as often). It's the same premise used in the gender

For one, I don't think I'd call these outfits particularly skimpy. For two, there's a lot more agency when we're talking about women who wrote and are performing their own song about critically calling out current trends in country music as opposed to women are only meant to be set decoration for a man's video. Or are

One of the things my coworkers think makes me fashionable are my cardigans. I have a lot of brightly colored cardigans (Old Navy is my jam) and I pair them with brightly colored shirts and different accessories (big earrings in warm months, scarves in cold months). I don't think I'm fashionable (hell, I pretty much

Surely you didn't just...no, you did. Great goddamn. Some people's self-centeredness knows no bounds.

There's a huge difference between dress that has cultural significance to the wearer and a costume. What your cousins are wearing? Not a costume. When a random White girl with no Native American cultural heritage wears it? It's cultural appropriation, a costume, and that's not okay. No one's policing how much of a

That was GLORIOUS. Wow.

I don't even like ice cream and I would by the shit out of that.

This, exactly. A strap across the throat doesn't exactly seem safe to me. And even when you can adjust the seat belt height, it never seems to go down far enough (That's what he said.)

Safety is what actually got me thinking about this. Looking at the mannequins used for crash testing, safety ratings, etc., the female mannequins tend to be fairly tall and flat-chested. They really don't look that much different from the male mannequins. I know my seat belt sits very differently on my short and busty

A style of seat belt that accommodates the fabulously busty ladies. Every time I get in my car, my boobs get in the way. DESIGN FLAW.

From what I can see online, it looks like Lulu tops out at a size 12. Zellas has a plus size line which is really helpful, but I think a lot of women are priced out of both Lulu and Zella. I was thinking more along of the lines of being able to find plus size workout clothes at Target, or the sporting goods stores in