Religion is a self-professed behavior. You are not born Christian, you are baptized into it. You were brought up in the religion of your parents and upon reaching adulthood, you had the choice to leave. You had the choice to continue going to church, to switch to another church of the same denomination, to convert, or…

Every time I've tried having this discussion, it turns into an argument because people don't want to admit what the word submission really means. They keep trying to pretty it up, and say that submission means every possible thing except...submission. Because it sounds bad. I've had people try to tell me that…

"It was for my own good."

Gary Busey and Courtney Stodden hung out. I would love to know what they talked about.

"I've always wondered why it seems like women tend to be most guilty of this."

Hahahaha oh nooo! My daughter has boy energy but luckily not boy grossness. I can't even imagine!

I think I love this. Thankyou.

Thanks. :) I think more than anything I was incensed by the implication that I would celebrate my 30th at Outback.

Caris is a cool name! When you said "People have legit asked if it was carrots" I literally laughed out loud. I've gotten some weird suggestions (and spellings!) re: my name and it's not really unusual at all, just kind of an old lady name.

My pleasure! I go to *both* of them, even!

You're definitely not alone. There's a whole genre of "couple's" pornography, but if it's not making you feel good, you should try something else. Maybe reading an erotic novel or collection of short stories together? I find I like that better than movies, because it stimulates my imagination more and I'm not worrying…

I just realized that Putin looks just like Roose Bolton from Game Of Thrones.

You are black only because a permanently black recommended your post. Else you stay grey. I am in the same boat as you.

I say end all romance between the two of you and actively start looking for other prospects. Either he realizes (because when you end it you tell him, nicely) that you are ready for something serious and also realizes (because he sees you going about your life happily and independently - DO THAT) that he wants to be…

I'm crap at posting gifs but this vid is a must watch.

You're at the weight you need to be when you feel healthy. You are the keeper of your body and it will look the way it looks at the weight you want to be at. That isn't to say that if you are undereating or doing harm to your body to get there, there might be cause for concern, but only YOU know what's going on with…

Jezzies, I had a denim breakthrough. I hadn't done any truely successful jeans shopping since 2011. I'd gotten a few new pairs, but they were ones I settled for out of desperation. Recently, I managed to take an objective look at my body. It finally dawned on me that even though I do have a good bit of curve in my…

Hey it's my birthday, who's drinking with me?

Question, how come every time I comment, I have to claw my way up from the gray? I had really hoped that once I went black, I would never go back. What must I do to prove myself Kinja? This rejection hurts my heart.

I don't know if this could be considered good or bad advice because I am not married and my moral compass doesn't always point North.
Personally I would not tell your husband as you didn't actually cheat and then I would delete this other man from your life. Do not contact him or allow him anyway to contact you and…