I agree, its about making sure someone has the same family values and long term goals as you. Some women are perfectly not being married. I am not one of them.

I believe i ultimatums within a reasonable time. That whole rushing a man after a few months or even a year is a sure way to push away a man. But after 5 years and a (accidental) kid, like the situation Im in, absolutely. Im not going to wait around for kid number two and still no ring. There is something awfully…