Yeah, some brides are true bridezillas and in that case I understand why people would bitch. If someone is getting married in another country and they’re demanding people go, then by all means, rage away! I would never go get married thousand of miles away then be surprised when some people find that to be too much.…

Seriously. I think I’d rather someone decline than come begrudgingly and talk shit behind my back because they had to travel to come to my wedding. Sorry life happened and we don’t live in the same town.

Ahh, gotcha. Well, to that I say, screw those bitches! JK ;) No, but I will agree on that. I should have added on my original comment “Throwing a wedding? Great, don’t be a bitch to your guests”. I did not have bridesmaids so the idea of asking a bunch of people to buy designer bridesmaids dresses is horrifying to me.…

I think if your situation is tight, being honest is key. We paid hotel accommodations for my parents and grandparents for our wedding; I don’t live in my hometown and I was happy to help out so they could be here. I would have done so for a close friend if he/she was in a similar situation.

I guess the difference between you and me is that I don’t see the point in whining about something that I cannot change, is nobody’s fault and is also a happy event for my friend

I guess I don’t understand what you mean by cost of attending a “gigantic expensive wedding”. Isn’t the expensive part expensive for the people getting married? I am not talking about destination weddings, those are a totally different topic, IMO.

When I talk about traveling for a wedding I mean traveling to where the couple lives and is getting married. I do think destination weddings are meant to essentially keep costs down and keep wedding guest count to a minimum, so yeah, the bride and groom shouldn’t - and probably aren’t - surprised that a lot of people…

That’s really stupid. Then again, not surprising. I just saw a girl congratulate another saying she was “extremely proud of her” because she’s decided to run in some 3rd rate pageant for married women. Like what? Why is this something to be proud of? This event requires no talent, isn’t for a scholarship or anything.…

Why do people love to complain about this so much? If you have to travel to go to a wedding, and you don’t want to spend the $, then don’t go. If it’s a close friend and I love the person, then I wouldn’t see it as some kind of burden but as a small sacrifice I have to make to be there for my dear friend. Unless…

Yes. Some people apparently don’t fucking know how to do this and they’ll throw their damn tampon on the floor. Fuck you if you do that. Also, fuck you if you don’t wrap that bloody plastic applicator in one square of toilet paper when there’s only regular trashcans with no lid. Nobody wants to walk in and look at…

Yeah, I have 3 :)

I can make the trek naked to the bathroom door where my robe is hanging, but that’s about it!

Agreed.

See, I don’t enjoy sleeping naked, either. Underwear and a t-shirt are a must!

I guess I don’t see where straight people get labeled as “brave” to play the role of a gay person. If the acting is good, I call it that. I never use bravery to describe acting. It’s acting, pretending, so no, no bravery.

I’m a weirdo who doesn’t like parading around naked after sex. So my freaky existence is validated when I see people covering themselves after sex! Yessssssssss!

Wait, what? You only want gay actors to play gay roles? What’s the point of acting then?

I’m not a movie buff or anything, but I loved the film. I think the scene towards the end with the dad really spoke to me. I found myself being so moved. The last shot of Tim’s pained face was also fascinating to watch. Just watched I, Tonya this weekend. Holy hell, her mother was a cunt. I still don’t know if I…

Right. I mean, if they keep pushing this, someone else can die just like this woman did so they should fucking stop. I’m just uncomfortable with a headline that makes it sound like the woman read Goop, jumped on this bandwagon, then died as a direct result of Goop’s advice.

Well, yeah, ideally...