cautiouslyoptimistic
cautiouslyoptimistic
cautiouslyoptimistic

THIS! It warms my heart. We had such a great turnout at our take back the night this year, and more men in attendance than ever. It really gives me hope that there are a lot of allies out there that were willing to show there support, and we had several male survivors speak out about their experiences. So much love.

This. Yeah, I think it's perfectly fine to bow out if you don't have the money. If the people love you and are understanding, they'll get over it. I think the worst part of all of this is I've heard horror stories about brides or grooms becoming indignant and malicious as hell when you break the news to them that you

I knew nothing about this until a friend of mine who works in film in Texas posted about it and there was a petition going around that I signed. I don't know this woman, (apparently he did) but yes, my immediate thought too when reading this headline was ... really? Jesus.

here's my chubby gal, Olive. I'm a proud mama. She grunts like a grumpy old man when people touch her and she's trying to play. She's glorious.

I strongly identify with this cat in most life situations but especially those regarding food. I use it whenever possible.

MY GAWD. I've been trying to kick the stuff lately but DANG, I may have to try this.

I don't know why, but I initially saw commercials for this and was hopeful. It was on while I was at the gym, so I watched some of it. After one rape joke, I moved machines so I wouldn't have to endure any more of it in my goddamn face. I just kept thinking, how many fedora wearing turds got together to pitch this?

Yeah, I think it's often easy to say what we would do in those situations, but my grandma was also a poor immigrant from Mexico with 6 kids. She was in a very similar situation. She lived in the basement apartment below one of my aunts with my grandfather until they died, and we still visited them every summer. It

I hear you.

My grandfather sexually abused all of my aunts and my mother their entire childhood. My grandmother knew and only kicked him out for 6 months before letting him back. I remember at his funeral his sisters (from Mexico, that obviously had no idea what had been going on) wailing dramatically but among the other women in

bless this post.

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ah, my Alma mater. I was wondering how long it would take for Jezebel to get a hold of this. Here's something to counteract all this horseshit:

Yeah... I had almost forgot about how bad it was until reading it yesterday. I have friends that grew up in the Chicago area where he would essentially prey on young girls. When I posted this on facebook she said that R. Kelly has a lot of clout in Chicago, and that it was well known that he was a creep, before any

pickle juice.

My doctor just told me yesterday that I need to exercise more. I just don't know how I'm going to break this news to my boyfriend... heh heh heh

MY GAWWWWWDUGHHHH.

OH NO!

Then I would HIGHLY NOT recommend watching the movie "anti christ" shit gets beyond weird.

You gotta keep it down to incidences of fapping, not per fap. Otherwise, you would die, instantly. No shots, just sips I'm assuming. Jesus what if you did it for every time someone asked to see boobs, too?

My favorite part as well. Also, I'm sitting at my desk, in TEARS from this gif. It's hilarious and terrifying. So many feelings.