Peace, friend. This is all so heartbreaking, and feels impossible to solve. The only way we'll be able to do so will be to listen to each other, and work together. Respect. Also, a little groveling is good for the soul sometimes, lol.

You're absolutely right, and I apologize. I realized that after I'd posted and re-read your post but my post had disappeared so I thought I'd avoided embarrassing myself but... I guess not! I just see red whenever I see cops' deaths mentioned in the context of another incident of police brutality. I agree with you…

Lol. Yeah, that too!

Yeah, but do you have cities that are walkable, with bike lanes and decent public transportation? Because that’s why I’m in New York City, and why I’m planning on staying here. I don't want to grow old some place where I won't be able to get around because I can't drive anymore. Not that I want to have to drive (and…

I'm absolutely with you buddy. Not that it would necessarily invalidate civil rights activism if they were black or whatever considering how many innocent black people are murdered every year, almost daily it seems. But the absolute and total shitstorm that would ensue if they're black just makes me... tired. Really,…

Uhhhhh... How would that even be possible??? I mean, were the cops not armed or something? My first thought was that maybe gun control would have prevented this because, you know, it would be harder for rando assholes to use guns to solve every problem they have.

That was absolutely my first thought.

I'm not into fashion either but I would totally wear these (if I could afford them)!

I don’t mean to jump all over you but I’m sorry, I’m so fucking tired of every time a black person gets killed, someone’s gotta bring up “but what about this white person (cop, whatever). Yes, bad things happen to people who are not black but it’s not a constant, *systematic* brutalization of white people or cops or…

OMG that sounds amazing! I'm def going to have to check it out!

Japanese pronunciation of "wife". Basically, a girl who develops crushes on another girl, especially if that other girl is a bit "masculine", e.g. good at sports or generally competent. At least according to anime. (Please note that I'm not saying that being competent or good at sports is masculine, just that this is…

I've never seen Hausu but Totoro for sure! Hayao Miyazaki has the BEST architecture porn in his movies lol!

That’s certainly true, but it can be bad or really fucking bad. I know, it’s going to take a lot more than using fans rather than AC but personally, I just can’t bring myself to add to/accelerate the fuckery. And wouldn’t it be awesome if we had *some* electricity independent alternatives for the very soon to be…

Before air conditioning people built houses to deal with heat and humidity. High ceilings; tall, thin windows that allow air flow through and heat to vent; corridors through houses that sucked hot air out. Or, in Japan, basically being able to take all the doors off a building and replace them with screens. There's…

You do realize that around 4% of the population are sociopaths? You've just been incredibly lucky to have avoided them, apparently. Not that this manager is necessarily a sociopath, she just sounds like your garden variety tool.

Make yours fresh with avocado or macadamia nut oil and farm fresh eggs. It's a health food!

I don’t. Bring it separately in a Ziploc baggie or other container then add it when you sit down to eat.

Preach it! My favorite sandwiches ever!

What he said. I refuse to eat white bread, with two exceptions: tomato sandwiches (bread must be toasted) and as a carrier for NUTELLA (bread emphatically untoasted!) In both cases any other bread choice would interfere with the perfection within/upon.

Such a great video!