My thoughts, too! I think this was more about her being late/hungover/aggressive than about her weight. Actually, I don't think her weight was even an issue here. I think it was her attitude.

It blows my mind that 90% of the comments here are supporting the author. I feel like there should be a study done to see how big of an ignorant ass you can be and still blame the other person if you're overweight.

Since Lindy didn't do a great job describing the situation, here's how I pictured it...

So.....you violated someone's space, he muttered something sotto voce, then you went and wrote an angry screed about it?