See, I’m not a huge fan of dark chocolate so I probably wasn’t going to like it anyway. HOWEVER, it was free which usually equals delicious for me and even then...I wonder what “true” “bean-to-bar” (sounds like a move you can try with your vibrator) chocolate tastes like...seems like fancy=bitter as fuck.

There was a story a couple of years ago in a literary magazine (I keep wanting to say Paris Review but that can’t be right) where the writer went to one or two kink shoots. The vibe I got was pretty disturbing - I understand that some/many women use BDSM for their own ends and exploration, but the porn version really…

Yep. Cindymoo has stuck by me, but she’s known that I’m sick since we were teenagers. It’s a testament to her commitment to me that she hasn’t cut and run when shit has gotten really bad.

It’s very strange to me. Feminists agree that patriarchy exist and that misogyny still shapes modern society. Third-wave feminists analyse (as they should) all aspects of society and the consequences that power imbalances between men and women have on our behavior, on the position of women in society, on relationships…

is this sort of degeneracy not the inevitable outcome of what third-wave feminism espouses? When will people realise that all this sex-positive porn stuff is just more lies for the masses and that ploughing a field is way better than plowing a butt?

Of course I’m aware of that.

Yes, and those bruises on her neck consistent with being choked are also just him defending himself.

Uh huh. And what about the dudes who jerk off to rape simulating porn? Are they sex positive feminists too?

Only on a site such as this would someone say that rape porn is not a part of rape culture.

Hey, how about not trotting out “sex-negative” in a post where someone in BDSM raped a woman despite her use of safewords, huh? Maybe realize that “sex-negative” is the new way to say “frigid” and stop using it, because the idea that we can’t discuss how damaging certain aspects of sex can be to women is horseshit.

Do you think people with ‘fucked up’ kinks don’t know they’re fucked up?

nah. fuck that. there are kinks that need to be called out and shamed. like if you get off on pretending to be a Nazi and simulating rape with your partner that's pretending to be Jewish that's fucked up and you should be made aware of that.

No one has fantasies about their souls being crushed and their dignity being destroyed and then having flashbacks for years about that, which is what rape is. Please rephrase your comment and think about what kink and BDSM is.

I’m not into visual porn; smutty writing does it for me. But enough people raved about him that I gave it a try, once. He spat in the woman’s face and simulated raping her - no thanks. Not into guys who even pretend to enjoy that shit, and if that makes me not sex-positive, I can live with that.

Having done a lot of neuropsych testing of stroke survivors, I was a little wary when it was reported that he was saying, “hey, babe” to Khloe and winking at her. I had hoped he was exceptionally resilient.

I don’t know, I kind of like that they used the term “children.” Because that’s what they are. I feel like calling them “desirable teens” or “desirable young adults” would have made it seem like less of a problem.

Tell ya what. Go beat the shit out of your girlfriend or boyfriend and see if anyone from the NFL shows up with a $12 million check.

Who gives a shit that he missed 19 games? He should be missing them all and the NFL shouldn’t be enabling this r from franchises. Any claims to moral superiority from the NFL head offices…

If what Diana said in her report is true and the NFL had all this, there is no way they would not have shared it with the team.

He looks old enough to release a statement supporting Otto Von Bismarck.

“We do not condone domestic violence. We just enable it.”