First, you need exact birth stats for both (city of birth, exact time, date), then open a free account on Astrodienst (must be others, but that's what I use), enter the data, then go to "free charts" & choose synastry. Then: intrepret! Obviously, that's the short answer. Fun & fascinating though.

"imagine being married for 20 years with NO communication" — Ken, there are many who would consider that an improvement.

Tired of waiting for the "girl of his dreams" to accompany him, my long-lovelorn brother went on vacation to Costa Rica, the one place on the planet he'd most wanted all his life to visit. On his last day there, through a friend back home who'd arranged the introduction, he took a woman to a movie, My Big Fat Greek…

A lot of us just spent the weekend analyzing why Rodger killed six people who did *nothing* to him — there is no rational reason. Plenty of people would have envied Rodger his advantages in life. Both these guys were/are gravely soul sick (or evil) (or mentally ill). Name your poison.

Are we seeing an increase in sinkholes, or do we just notice them more as we build upon / pave more of the earth's surface?