I do read comments, and I’m sure we read different sites and move in different spheres. That’s why I’m asking for examples, to try to understand your point of view: you’ve seen evidence I haven’t, and rather than dismiss it, I’d like the chance to evaluate it.

My experience is radically different from yours. The women I’ve talked to/read comments by have expressed:

Can you give me an example of something that’s too much/over the top/too high a flame? Because all of the cases I’ve read about are straight-up egregious in my eyes (people who grope strangers should be called out for it; employers who extort sex should be fired; workplace rapists should be prosecuted). But we’re all…

Trash, yes. Also — whatever age the child looked (and she looked like a child to me in contemporary photos) — the man who drugged and raped her knew exactly what her age was, and discussed with her mother how unnecessary a parental presence would be at their meeting.

Yes. Thank you. Yes.

...the jerseys were their way of expressing honor and respect.

And John Oliver!

His story doesn’t apply to your situation at all. These weren’t co-workers, and the issue wasn’t that his “flirting” was misinterpreted/misrepresented by the women.

Many would tell you that Warhol was art distilled.

...art destruction, no matter the quality, the origin or the owner is never something to be happy about.

So you’ll understand why no one feels for your butthurt.

And there is really nothing humorous about art being destroyed and a person clearly having mental/drug problems.

Sure, when art is destroyed. But these were Warhols, right?

Look at you, packing that much wrong into three little paragraphs!

Off to the star bank to see about a star loan so I can give you all the stars, all of them...

AKA the interview that confirmed every creepy, nasty, entitled vibe I got from Dylan. “Lay Lady Lay”? Fuck you, buddy.

People here are mostly discussing the moral definition of rape. I know I am. As Cray Cray notes, you continue to narrow your definition of rape, but not of any of the other terms used in your discussion.

A real friend would put the gift card inside the potato head. You should check.

You think the legal and moral definitions of rape are identical?

Poor Zilor. That sounds really, really rough.