This is absolute genuine curiosity; what is the line between cautioning and teaching people to take measures to protect themselves and victim blaming or I guess potential victim blaming? #reallynottrolling

I watch alot of natural hair "how to" videos on youtube. Sometimes women with natural hair will press or straighten their hair to shake things up a bit. And I've watched quite a few of them hold their hair like that, I guess to show...length? My own natural hair isn't long enough to attempt that.

I don't think her booty is fake, their are a few women, a very few mind you, who are thin and willowy but got a firm big booty. I am not one of them, my sister is. Had it since high school. Some people just got dat ass.

On Hans being a disingenuous attractive asshole: "Well, it definitely makes him hotter (KIDDING)"
sigh. If you take off the "kidding" part you basically have my dating philosophy until about 2009, i.e. most of my damned life.

I see what your saying Tracy, but I think there is genuine validity to my disappoint in Phil's comments. I think its a little dismissive to say people should not have been surprised.
As someone who spent summers in Ellsville Georgia with my southern relatives, if I had thought about it, I would likely have realized…

exactly! Thank you for articulating what I have been trying to explain to skeptical friends / commentators all week. It's like I can sort of glean that my grandfather does not approve of gay people. However, I can also know that my country ass grandfather would never disrespect a gay person or spew hatred about an…

Exactly! Thank you for articulating what I have been trying to explain to liberal friends /commentators all week. Its like I sort of know that my southern grandfather disapproves of gay people but I also know that he will not call a gay friend of mine a "gawd damned sodomite" and will be respectful and kind toward…

Exactly! Thank you for articulating what I have been trying to explain to liberal friends /commentators all week. Its like I sort of know that my southern grandfather disapproves of gay people but I also know that he will not call a gay friend of mine a "gawd damned sodomite" and will be respectful and kind toward…

Nostalgic part: family that wears camo, hunts, eats squirrel and thinks the Bible is the literal word of God (shout out to Ellisville, Georgia). country black people do that too.
As to identifying with being ambitious WASPs willing to go meld themselves into whatever society needed them to be in order to get ahead?…

Yes to both.

Oh man, I loved this show. gawd dammit, phil . that show touched me. There is a reason this show was the most popular reality show of all time. They just genuinely love each other, they work really hard and they are sooo sooo funny. their lifestyle (minus the millions) hit a nostalgia point for me. I am African…

I love Dr. Lahiri, my favorite show on tv is the Mindy Project.

When I saw the picture of Mr. or Ms. Kitten accompanying this article, my head almost imploded from all that cute. But whenever I read about cafe's like this, I always get worried. What if someone hurts a cat while the staff isn't looking, what if with the doors opening and closing so much, one of the cats gets out…

It is so cool that you were a ballet dancer, rock climber, soccer player, and cheerleader. You have an incredibly well rounded sport life. And it is awesome that you went to schools that facilitated your ability to participate in activities like that. I am completely snark free when I say, I am jealous.

I don't have cable anymore, so this helps alot actually

"THIS ISN'T A MOTHERFUCKING ERYKAH BADU VIDEO! IT'S ABERCROMBIE! WE ARE CLASSIC, SIMPLE BITCHES!"

I can't wait until next week, "Let's get Sari !" when they Bindi's on your forehead and appropriate South Asian culture. Good times!

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I think I agree with him very much but give him the side eye because I think he panders to a certain subset of women. However, he and his girlfriend (dang it, cannot remember her name, she has been interviewed by Jezebel) are obsessed with their CATS. obsessed. All over her instagram, he talks about them all the…

Is it just me or is it weird, since he's talking about her shaking her butt up and down and miming having sex with said foam finger and he's her DAD. Or maybe its just me.