Ehh, disagree. I think having some degree of formality is a good way to maintain boundaries between kids and adults, which I think is safer for the kids in the long run.

So I had a girlfriend who was wonderfully adventurous and fun during sex, and one time she got me this flogger thing to try spanking her with. When we were messing around with it, it occurred to both of us that the handle of the flogger was decidedly dildo-shaped, and she suggested that it could be hot for me to spank…

I actually think the photo Kanye tweeted is beautiful. I wonder if he took it.

Her tweet seems shady to me in a way I can’t quite put my finger on.

I don’t even like Taylor but that person is a great fan and obviously has a lot of talent. And IDK who you are, if someone spent that much time and effort to make something for you and you don’t appreciate it (the thought and effort if not the final product), you’re a jerk.

I know, I’m such a sucker for mother-daughter moments. I had to remind myself that I don’t actually like either of them.

Shit, that sounds like a rough time. :(

I think people are defending it because of the Umbridge vs Voldemort rule — even though Voldemort is worse, you have Umbridge more because you /know/ people like Umbridge. Everyone has been annoyed at someone leaving dog poop around, very few people have encountered someone actually smearing it on someone’s door.

I think it depends on the consensuality of the drugs and sex involved. I mean for some people, partaking in drugs and sex as a group is a spiritual experience. So it’s like... “I want to find people to get high and have sex with” vs “I want to find high people to have sex with” or “I want to get people high and have…

Please write a memoir.

According to everyone Keanu is an incredibly nice person.

That’s actually p normal for fiction and poetry authors.

Who ungreyed this guy?

Chinese authors have been writing science fiction for a long time, it’s just starting to get translated into English. (I had a very interesting conversation the other day with a friend who’s doing research on this very subject.)

There’s also the fact that poetry and art can be really comforting and empowering for people with mental illness. I have a diagnosed mental illness AND an advanced degree in poetry, and I do think there’s a connection there — it’s meaningful to find non-linear, indirect ways of expressing yourself when your mind can’t…

Most actors have things they aren’t willing to do, I think. Like a lot won’t do nude scenes or explicit sex. Some actors have been known to turn down roles due to excessive violence (like when Mandy Patinkin left Criminal Minds). And I’m sure there are plenty of actresses who wouldn’t do a rape scene because it’s too…