i completely agree with all of the above!

over here in the UK, i encounter the most racist statements from people decrying immigration/refugee policies. there is a reason that people want to shut that down. i have been shocked by how horrible people are regarding outsiders

eat more meat and you're sorted

that is true

i have read his articles, yes. some of what he has said is helpful, but some things are so reprehensible to me that it negates the good things. the context doesn't explain it away

i am glad that you had a good experience with his work. some people have the opposite experience - i think it depends on the person involved and i would not judge either. he has said disrespectful and insensitive things about asexual people, fat people, men, women, and a rape survivor. all of those instances make it…

you are not really making sense. in the case of porn, the person would be deciding whether they would consent to sex... and that sex would be with a condom. nobody is taking that right away, because the actors would not be forced to have sex. they can still withdraw consent for every single act.

i do some minor acting, but i am in a weird category. i am in my early forties, but i look 10 to 15 years younger (it just runs in my family). but... i don't look like a stereotypically hot/slim woman of 25 to 30... so i can't compete with young actresses for parts and i don't look old enough to credibly play "mom" or…

i agree, and i prefer james spader in the more recent photo

i agree, it's just that so many people think he is awesome that i tend to think i must not be seeing the whole picture

a person is consenting to the act (penetration by a penis) in the first place, so the only difference is whether they are consenting to the act with a condom. at no time is their consent overridden or ignored. they would not be forced to have sex if they do not want to do it with a condom. so your objection has no…

requiring that someone should wear a condom in order to participate in a job is not "non consensual sexual activity". it does not force them to do anything at all because participation in porn must be consensual in the first place. at any point they can withdraw consent and walk away.

i agree... i don't get the idea that skirts look better. to me, they don't

i think you have gotten the point - i think some viewers will relish the idea that the women will accidentally flash them

that is definitely true, and i am sorry if i was snappish - i didn't mean to direct my irritation at you. i wanted to enjoy anal sex, and i tried it with several partners over many years. i did everything as i was supposed to, but it just didn't work for me. yet so many reputable sex educators insist that it should…

my state of dress reflects my mood in the opposite way. if i am content to leave the house in sloppy pyjamas, then i am in a good mood. if i am dressed up, i am likely stressed and irritable

i have IBS and i have gone ahead with anal.... 'nuff said

well done

for me, it was excruciatingly painful, even after doing all of the preparations. i don't think i am alone in that, and i don't like when "experts" say that it should never hurt