THANKS! :)
Bonjour les Jezzies! A few Saturday Socials ago I wrote about this guy I was seeing, how I wasn’t sure how to make a move and if he would be interested...
Oh god same... I’m absolutely awful at detecting those kinds of vibes. Better than I used to be I guess, but I still get super paranoid/irrational about being able to read the vibe right. Every person I talk to about this tells me I’m an idiot for doubting reciprocity, but I can’t help being scared shitless I’ve been…
I totally see your point but I’m so shy I’m afraid the words are gonna sound ridiculous when I say them? Or like I suddenly won’t know how to articulate? Ugh. Alcohol would help with that though! Hmmmmm.
HAHA honestly I think it would be a great addition for me because it kicks my social anxiety to the curb. Get some wine bottles, good food and see where it goes...
True dat. I think a hug might work as well, harmless at first, but then your faces are right next to each other andddd......
Hahaha yeah, I just got a little self-conscious about my actions because I read about it recently... but I never lied to or neglected my ex so I’m okay with it. I actually began seeing my ex around 19 (he was my first relationship ever) and it lasted four years. Now I’m 24 and out of the vortex and kinda confused…
Hmmmmmmmm yes I’ve been thinking about that actually! Thing is, we’ve only started the “hardcore cuddling” last wednesday! Haven’t really seen him since but yes. Turning around in the midst of half-asleep cuddles would be a great way of creating that window of opportunity!
HAHA well I’m into that kind of passive-aggressive vibe ;) Never underestimate the power of a well-placed boob! Will keep in mind :)
Hmm no I don’t think I neglected my ex emotionally, pretty sure it was the other way around but not on a super conscious level (we were just in denial about growing apart for a few months and I was beginning to feel “alone” even when I was with my ex).
Again very true; we can’t let that “constant awareness” paralyze us. Ignorance truly is bliss. We all have to overcome it and find happiness in spite of some disturbing knowledge.
Very true... We now have this globalized awareness that means we know there’s ALWAYS something awful going on. We have to go through our daily lives knowing about all the horrible things happening in the world and it’s so confusing; on one hand we can’t “unknow” these things, but we also can’t let it destroy our…
Hello Jezzies! (TLDR at the end)
Drinking red wine with my brother while I’m doing homework and he plays video games (yes we are both adults). Paris is so fucked up in so many ways, I fear words cannot describe the international clusterfuck we’re all living in.
I honestly don’t have anything that relevant to add to your post other than a big hug from a random internet person... People suck, a lot of the time. I guess we can choose to hope for the best or become cynical in the face of what life throws at us. I really do wish you an awesome “someone” eventually, because the…
I had my first breakup spring 2014 (first relationship, started 2010-11ish) and it felt so strange to admit that we simply weren’t the right people for each other anymore. I think that because it was my first I had trouble recognizing feelings of distanciation that should have raised some flags.
Broke up with my ex almost six months ago... It was mutual, we decided it was better to be honest with each other that we weren’t feeling it anymore so might as well end it before we despised each other.