There is a difference between punishment and consequences.

Yeah, I'd love to see an article where a man stays in a relationship for 44 years and never has an orgasm durning sex. I'll start holding my breath now.

TOTALLY relate to you. I've had to have the "hey look, I probably won't orgasm most of the time" with several partners. I faked it for two years with my first boyfriend and for about half our relationship I wasn't even sure what an orgasm was so I just assumed since I was having a good time I was orgasming. Then we…

Pretty sure it's "stop pretending that it's OK for coupled sexual pleasure to be so uneven and that it's not a problem for so many" since this article is primarily about ladies who aren't getting off and are (at least claiming to be) ok with that.

You know, that happened to me, too, when my blood sugar was high. And, yes, it was horrible. And there exist tons of literature for men about high blood sugar affecting erections; and they all claim it to be different for women (because women's orgasms are this ineffable, mysterious chimera based on so many abstruse…

FUCKING THANK YOU.

Can we fucking stop with this shit? All this talk. All these articles about how sex can be great, suuure, without orgasms. ONE LITTLE DETAIL in all these articles though - almost all the women who don't come with their man are usually getting themselves off alone. I don't know about anyone else, but when I MASTURBATE,…

Yes, but there will always be people who think that if you're not suffering from a crippling lack of self-esteem, or at least practicing false modesty, you're the actual worst. It's like on the one hand, people talk about how we should love ourselves, and then on the other, as soon as someone says, "Yeah I think this…

The part of this that grates on me so much is the claims that this woman is screaming her head off for attention and self-promotion. Personal blogging has been a popular thing to do since at least 1994, how are people still confused about the fact that it involves talking about yourself, usually in a not-entirely…

"a role model for the aggressively weird among us, a little misshapen beacon of hope for everyone still hoping to find domestic stability with someone whose brand of extreme rumpledness vibes with our own."

It's the nightmare before Christmas :(

I can't wait to see stories about revenge on other servers.

Why should they cut anything so as to let a bunch of singers try their hand at sketch comedy?

Sounds like that would only work in bed with Benedict Cumberbatch.

"I wanna gyre and gimble all over your tits." Bulletproof.

For some odd reason I've always found that invoking Lewis Carroll in dirty talk is either a Grand Slam or an instant strike-out.

I mean, if the level of pretentiousness at an event is set to "vegan brunch buffet," I might make the mistake of thinking things under glass are fair game.

untrue. Very easy to be an overweight vegan. Easy to be an overweight vegetarian. It is actually HARD to be a veggie who is trying to lose weight. Take easy to prepare and widely available lean proteins like chicken or fish out of my diet and not a whole lot is left that isn't either full of fat/carbs or will…

Awesome, THIS person.