Update: 11:30 Eastern and still no greys.

I’m ungrayed here so I scroll and try to bump people out of the greys, but they’re still gone for now. I hope they fix this quick...

Way off topic, but I can’t see the “pending” tab on any articles published since this afternoon. Just me? I wanna see the greys!

Rage Against the Machine did that at a show at the Oakland coliseum in 1999. They stopped the show and said -if they see anyone grab a woman in the mosh they would walk out.

If you need a Dorothy for your GG house (tall, sour, raspy), gimme a call! Heh.

Stay away, Selena. IT’S A TRAP.

This. Like honestly, every person of my gender is gross.

Does it end with her curling up in a tight ball on the floor because every single man she comes into contact with has more gross, shitty thoughts about women than she could ever imagine, even the good guys?

There have been two constants I have longed for all my life: a place of my own and a dog of my own. I have achieved both. Everything else is gravy.

...she’s definitely saying if you have enough money to be able to make choices, in your life, it’s your responsibility to figure out what those choices should be for your own happiness. And if it involves moving away from your family or abandoning everything that your family or your friends have told you that you…

I’ve had a vintage 1936 copy of Live Alone and Like It for years. I love just opening it up randomly and reading great morsels like this one on how to throw a cocktail party: “The seven essential bottles contain sherry, gin, Scotch, rye, French and Italian vermouth, and bitters. Sherry for the mild drinkers and more…

That would be ideal.

I feel really similar. I’m an American and have lived here over ten years, I have a lot of gay/lesbian/trans/ace friends. This vote woke me up to how bigoted Australia still is. I’d always thought it was pretty laid back here, people lived and let live. But the way the No voters attacked and bitched and twisted and…

Oh yay! Thank you for passing that along, I am really glad she enjoyed it!

I mean, it’s living the dream.

This was an awesome interview! Thanks to both Faircloth & Stutts for this. I’m going to have to dig up this long-overlooked gem of a book, to get a picture of how I might have been viewed/acculturated if I lived in the 1930s. I often wonder idly what it’d be like if I lived in this-or-that time period, having the…

And for single women to say, on balance, everything that I have as a single person is better than the compromises that I would have to make to be in an unsatisfactory relationship, and I’m not going to give up the happiness that i have in blind pursuit of something that society tells me that I need.

Obviously great news, BUT (I have a big but), civil rights should not need to come to a vote. Civil rights should flow naturally from the basic national bill of rights (or whatever the Australian equiv is, sorry American here, who as typical doesn’t know shit about other country’s forms of government).