We still have so much of that going on with the “cool feminists”. Like we aren’t vocally/publically/loudly allowed to criticise things like prostitution, pornography, forcing yourself to have sex to keep a relationship going etc etc and so on. So much of real, hard cutting feminism still remains fringe at the moment.

Im hoping moving out will the thing that does the trick for me.

You’re lacing understanding of the Patriachy as a force that affects everythign around us. Everyone has sexist prejudices/biases, especially men. We are all bought up with it since we are born. Its just women tend to questions and disagree with the sexism around them the more aware they get. Men don’t need to do that…

And yet no woman. Seriously stuff like this makes me think the future is men of all minorities getting ahead, while all women lag behind.

I so hope this is true. Im in my mid twenties and still don’t have to together. I keep the oddest sleep and awake times and procrastinate like there’s always tomorrow. Im hoping it all gets easier the older I get.

There is nothing as petty as men in this world.

Look the list would be 99% of them if you include abuse/harrassment/generalised disrespect of women. So if you include abusers and enablers its basically 99%.

I love how out of all the actors out there Keanu’s the one who’s become the Jez favourite. Anyway I totally approve and feel the same, he would be one that I would be most devastated by. Don’t know why.

I honestly don’t think we should at all respect values that put women and gays as sub-human. That just doesn’t go against “western values”, it goes against what it means to be a human. What it means to be decent. It goes against the justice, equality etc. So basically I have zero respect for these cultures until they…

Isn’t it like emotional abuse though? It’s not physical, unless STI’s are involved, but it still crosses the line for emotional abuse up there with gaslighting etc.

Yeah I expected her to become like a Jennifer Lawrence huge actor type after 10 Things I Hate About You, but it never took off. I wonder why?

I think in that case deleting the apps is a great idea but keep using the facebook messenger app. Another good habit is to only check social media once or twice at most duing the day. Like set time aside: e.g. from 5-5.30pm I will do social media. And then I wont check it for the rest of the day. Its hard at first,…

Yeah I feel the same way about prostitution and stripping and so on. Just because there’s a demand for services that demean and objectify women doesnt mean there has to be a supply for it.

I deactivated Facebook, cut my friends to around 120 on instagram. I have really lessened all social media but i guess netflix has replaced that. But its not the same you knos. Social media really drained me. Whereas watching a few episodes here and there on netflix doesnt do the same. But yeah, we all need to get…

There’s no many people in entertainment though, so many trying to break in that you could literally fire every major player right now and still have thousands who will take their places. Thousands of talented people with no histroy of being an abuser in their histrories. So i say let the swamp of enertainment be…

I didn’t even realise these were the flagship shows. I’ve never watched them anway. I thought the Unbreakable Kimmy Schmidt, Broklyn 99 (not strictly netflix i know), Riverdale, Star Trek Discovery was where its at. And those shows are doing fine.

Turkey is quickly seeming to be the worst of places. I once read an article, I think it was on cracked, on a “discipline” school for girls in Turkey. Like they took girls there, even overseas ones (their passports were locked away). And the girls were usually outspoken or demanded their rights, and they came out the…

Well being willing to accept its the majority makes you ahead of the curve. Seriously I just want to get beyond the societally accepted belief that it is just the odd 1-2 guys here and there that are sexist, and not your family members/partners/colleagues etc.

My % doesn’t include men who are self-aware and taking responsibility etc etc.

Yeah yeah yeah sure. But honestly I used to perfectly accept everyone and convince myself I was wrong, I was being judgemental etc etc. Only upon reading feminism, as well as information on red flags and other feminist books have I really woken up. And things I would excuse before or ignore are exposed to me as…