As a dude, I think one of the problems is that, especially around your college-immediate post college years, there's a lot of pressure to be as promiscuous as possible. Society says "oh you gotta CRUSH those CHICKS HARD" but a lot of us are pretty content to just have one person? And it's tough to say out loud! …

Seriously, LOOK AT THOSE EYES. EW. EW EW EW.

You have further strengthened my resolve to FUCKING HATE BIRDS.

I 100% agree with you, even down to the fear of birds!

That's why I've always been drawn to monogamy. I feel like one night stands would just be pretty vanilla sex. You gotta get to know someone before you bring out the feather dusters and bear suits.

Yeah, my ex had a relationship with another woman while we were together, and at the same time I caught him flirting with other women. When I found everything out I was just thinking, how did you even have time for all of this? How did you manage to keep every lie straight? That's sounds miserable and exhausting.

That's great. Like I honestly don't feel too bad about my marriage as I think that my ex just WASN'T the type of person to be monogamous. She seemed to be trying really hard at first and it was always apparent that a life of monogamy was painful for her.

Promiscuity sounds exhausting. How do you juggle all those partners? I was briefly involved with a poly lady and (seriously, not to be judgmental!) she had to like, keep a schedule of when she could see all of us. That seems like way too much work! (EDIT: I'm also pretty disorganized. So.)

I am monogamously promiscuous. I like to be slutty with one guy.

Jezebel:welldocumentedbully

Madeleine has been made to see the TRUTH that the title of a long-standing regular feature has been BULLYING ALL ALONG.

I have no tolerance for watching people play video games so dating Ansel Elgort sounds like hell on earth.

Duuuuude. Not even "Play GTA with you," or (my preferred situation) "Go do something more interesting in another room while you play GTA."

But he'll take you to an EDM concert!!!

Allison Williams defended her dad, Brian Williams: "He's a really good man. He's an honest man. He's a truthful man. He has so much integrity. He cares so much about journalism

Another HORRIFYING part of the Ansel Elgort interview:

"PEOPLE: there are so many legitimate things that you can make fun of Iggy Azalea about. Please leave her innocent butt out of it."

"Gawker Media as a company and institution is not pro-bullying."

I also thought that was weird and something that would never happen in real life.

If I'm still having to pay every time I got to get a refill and I know my pills are generic, am I going to have to call BCBS and raise a stink just to get my copay back?

Simply getting your doctor to make a call to the insurance company explaining that a specific medication is necessary can lead to an appeal and get the cost of your copay down to $0.