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Right!???? He could actually have a really nice life full of coffee dates with his female coworkers who would love to bitch to him about the sexist assholes and who would be super supportive in the face of his professional woes as well. But no. Instead he’s choosing to be a miserable little grunt. Honestly all the men

It’s so fucking amazing when men claim they don’t have the ability to regulate their interactions with women. “What if I get flustered?” Are you telling me you’re more unstable around a 5'5 female colleague than you are around your 6'2 male boss? I trully believe that if a man is so anxious and socially incompetent

I have worked in the service industry and retail for my entire adult life. Nearly every job I held had “that one guy”. “That one guy” who just has to touch you. “That one guy” who constantly asks why you don’t have a boyfriend when you have a body like that. “That one guy” who makes jokes about what it would be like

I don’t have any female friends or family members who haven’t been sexually harassed at work. I’ve been working for 15 years and have been sexually harassed several times, only to have HR shove it under the rug or say “oh he’s a nice guy, I don’t believe that” instead of formally investigating. The more powerful man

1. You can complain all you want, but the way you are behaving really suggests you are a sexual harasser. It’s all about how YOU are a victim of big, bad, mean women.

2. The fact that you still have a job to worry about and aren’t fired on day two of every job you’ve ever had from all these rampant “false” accusations

As a woman: It’s called gaslighting. Or DARVO. Deny, accuse, reverse victim and offender. Or just straight up manipulation.

Do you know what proportion of rape and assault charges made by women are false?

I literally laughed out loud at your post. You’re right. Men don’t ruin women’s professional lives by accusing them of sexual harassment. They don’t have to. They can just claim the woman flirted. Then she’s the office tart. Consider that: A woman has to claim that a man harassed her to hurt his reputation. A man just

But you are a man right? That’s my guess, at least. I’m not going to attack you, because I don’t think that’s a way to a dialogue, and I assume that you’re arguing in good faith, and not being a troll. So assumptions out of the way, please believe us ladies when we say that the power imbalance strongly, strongly has

Your absolutely right I won’t be in a situation where a man could accuse me of inappropriate behavior, because I don’t go around sexually harassing my co-workers.

Women generally only make those accusations when they’re true.

Sure. But I wouldn’t make up a false sexual harassment claim against them. That’s an incredibly stupid way to deal with a co-worker you hate.

Are you doing those things? If not, don’t worry; nobody’s talking to you. If you are, STOP IT. YOU DESERVE WHAT YOU GET.

As someone who has filed a sexual harassment complaint, it does not take one complaint. My harasser did not experience repercussions until 4 other women made complaints. All 5 of us had to provide months of evidence of inappropriate contact. The asshat even admitted to harassing women because someone had turned him

You opinion is not supported by reality and sounds like someone who has never had to go through HR to try to deal with someone sexually harassing them.

I’m sorry, what the fuck?

Bill O’Reilly and Harvey Weinstein weren’t sunk due to “mere accusation.” They did horrible things, got away with it for years, and then eventually the multiple lawsuits caught up with them.

Then why did the fucking scumbag owner of a POPULAR Chicago bar, who I sued for extensive sexual harassment including assault, in 1992 not only WIN the case brought against him by me (and 3 other women—though he had actually done it to EVERY WOMAN who worked for him), but suffered ZERO loss of business or respect? The

Ah, ok, I realize now that you are trolling. No one could be this obtuse and stupid for real.

That’s a start (as obvious as it should be), but there are tons of things that aren’t as obvious: