Here’s the issue my husband believes (like literally believes) we are at 50/50 when in reality it’s more like 90/10 and it blows my mind. What was even more revealing is I tried to create a chore chart/list to create a more equal workload but so many items I was like “he won’t do that right” or “this looks like he’s…

Because a lot of dudes literally don’t see or understand the full scope of the work as a result of socialization. Women see the unequal distribution of household labor because they’re the ones doing the work. It’s like how white people don’t see white privilege because they’re the ones with the privilege. People of…

I feel like there’s a bit fault in the logic/numbers here because it assumes that there will still actually be enough Medicaid funding to cover that $21 or $77 million. They’re planning on slashing that budget too so what we’re actually going to get is an even higher mother and infant mortality rate and more women…

Chocolate has magnesium. When I told my doctor that chocolate helped my cramps, she said, you could also take magnesium pills. So I did and my nighttime leg cramps went away, too.

The area now known as the Gayborhood was just a regular old in-decline residential area in the 1960's. It wasn’t until the mid-70's that gays began gentrifying the area, Giovanni’s Room relo’d there from 2nd & South and boom, it’s The Gayborhood.

This site has info http://philadelphiaencyclopedia.org/archive/gayborhood/

I agree it seems quite stunt-y and I’ve not enjoyed the fawning ‘OMG!!’ coverage of it all over today. But at the same time, I’m not mad at it. It’s a nice sculpture. It’s not changing the world, but more public art is never gonna be a bad thing?

Also, I notice that there is an overall lack of respect/recognition for one’s boundaries. Asking for help/support is different than being needy.

Eh, I’m not sure I can buy this. Feeling like someone is using you for emotional support all the time is incredibly draining. It also can feel incredibly selfish, particularly when the person never asks how you are despite going to you for emotional support all the time. There is a fine line between expressing your…

Normally I’m in favor of more transparency, but I agree this could have unintended consequences. We saw with the election that there are a lot of racists as fuck people in this country, who act on those feelings, but are smart enough to not actually admit to it. If jurors know that their racist as fuck statements…

Nearly 30 years ago, there were men who understood that at best drunken consent is questionable, and it’s better to err in NOT violating another person because you’re horny. I was 18 and drunk, and I recall very clearly (because I’ve never been blackout drunk) that I asked a man who clearly found me attractive to…

I’ll still argue that a drunk person can give consent. But at any point where a person loses consciousness, consent is instantly revoked. I don’t care if they are sober and fell asleep, Narcoleptic or so drunk they pass out, once unconscious, consent stops.

There’s a big ass gray area between sober and too drunk to…

Only gonna say this ‘cause I didn’t learn until I was 22 and it caused me a lot of grief:

I was full body groped in an isolated space on a movie set (not in the biz, just a p.a. job in college) by an assistant director. I was 18 and very sheltered, I froze like a statue. Believe or not, Gene Hackman broke it up by entering the space and asking an off-hand question (whether he noticed or not, I love him for…

Honestly, instead of running for President, he should just have started one of those evangelical mega-churches — all the glory and adoration from the brain-dead masses (sheep lining up to be shorn), more money, no taxes, no oversight, and no work.

I honestly cannot believe the political press and, apparently, survey respondents are falling for this bullshit like the last two years of evidence just magically vanished; and they’re offering anything remotely resembling praise for this speech from this septuagenarian dipshit.

But it has electrolytes...

This worries me even more that the dangerous shit Trump’s doing. The bar has been placed a half inch off the ground and the media is willing to get down there and measure it. This asshat gives a speech with generics that no one can really disagree with (“We’re going to improve education,” said the guy who hired…

Sexual enjoyment and gratification by men is perceived as being the norm because the overwhelming portrayal and perspective is by and for men. Women may appear to be much more inappropriate given its infrequency.

I haven’t