I don’t think I would do this, typically house slab on grades are too thin to accommodate a vehicle. We usually have to thicken up the ones for garages and driveways. I would have found a parking deck somewhere. Congrats to him though, hopefully he won’t have foundation problems down the road.

I feel like everything your describing as your blackness, are merely human experiences. Seeking identity, expression, relation, is just what we do as humans.