Stop with the bullshit. Just stop.

Don’t bother reasoning with her. Facts and common sense are her worst enemies. If someone says something, it is true no matter what, no exceptions. It’s hilariously and ironically Trumpian.

We have plenty evidence of wrongdoing, despite what some neckbeard chinstrokers want to actually around about. Do you just not know what evidence is? 

People don’t make up stories of sexual assault. Yes, it has happened

Citations? Where the fuck are they in this story? Where? And you don’t get to question my level of education when you parrot the same talking points that the “Fake News” crowd trots when they need an excuse to believe something that is utter bullshit.

This is a terrible strawman and I’m sick of seeing people using brandishing this example as some kind of an excuse for women being passive to the point of letting others control their narrative. Nowhere in the story did she mention being or feeling threatened by him in any way. Her life was not in danger if she had…

So women should just give up and move on an island where they’re isolated from men? Is that your solution?

Nobody said that saying “no” guarantees you won’t get raped. But verbalizing what you do and don’t want and leaving no room for misinterpretation does a lot to avoid ambiguous situations where one party is hurt because the other misunderstood what they wanted. It’s about exercising your agency. I don’t know why…

So your point is what, that women should never attempt to assert their agency with men in any situation ever?

No no no, if you suggest there’s nuance to this shit then you’re clearly rape apologist.

Oh Jesus Christ COME ON. “Why didn’t she simply walk out?” Yeah, and, like, why don’t abused women just leave their husbands? It’s just that simple, right?

Yes, because when someone doesn’t have to worry about being held accountable by having their accusations tied to an identity, it’s preposterous to suggest that we shouldn’t be so quick to believe them.

Or, maybe we could, you know, wait for something approaching evidence of wrongdoing, or at least confirm a pattern of behavior, before we indict someone in the court of public/social media opinion.

People don’t make this stuff up

So believe everything you ever read with no regard for the credibility of the source.

They aren’t a Russian porn site or anything

Yeah, let’s not give a fuck that this could be a made up bullshit story. /s

Sometimes I feel like couples should have this conversation from the beginning.

But, because someone makes a mistake, that doesn’t mean they are not human and deserve no chance of redemption.

but this guy sounds like the kind of work his spouse didn’t know she was signing up for.