I’m really alarmed at how many so-called feminists are basically saying “hey it sucks that you cheated, but make sure she never finds out what you do behind her back!”

I think the pain of knowing you’ve been cheated on is understated here.

Cheating has no effect on their relationship? Are you fucking kidding me?

You know what else causes unnecessary hurt to the partner? Untreated STDs and HIV. And unlike hurt feelings, they don’t go away.

I don’t think you understand what true repentance is if this is your logic. That’s like saying “if you’re truly repentant and you’ve only raped/murdered someone once, you shouldn’t turn yourself in. Just feel guilty about it and don’t do it again”.

Interesting that it’s white liberals (and MOC who want a piece of the white supremacy pie, but I digress) who keep pushing this narrative that Bernie was “cheated” out of the nomination simply because their votes didn’t take precedence over ours...

Can you give me any type of response to me let me know if I’ve been shadowbanned? Thanks.

Hugging complete strangers is not a global social norm, and is not necessary for social interactions. In fact, forcing people to hug people they don’t wish to hug is exactly how children get confused about personal boundaries and don’t report sexual abuse because they’re shamed about exercising their right to bodily…

One of the very few intelligent, mature responses that explains the other perspective. You’re right, if the love already died before she did it makes sense that he could move on so soon.

You’re not wrong. But at the same time, do you really believe there’s no such thing as too soon? Like if this was a month as opposed to a year? Do you not think that when it comes to processing the grief of losing a spouse, it’s good to go through a period of getting yourself together before moving on to another…

That is seriously suspect. Not only that he moved on within a month, but the pharmacist who handled his wife’s chemo drugs? Ugh.

And this is because of society’s bullshit rule that childrearing is a woman’s job and a man cannot be adequate at it without the aid of a woman.

Men are also way more likely to dip out on a marriage when the wife becomes gravely ill. I guess that’s just “moving on” too?

It’s always dying women begging their husbands to move on with their lives and find a new lover as soon as possible.

I’m just curious, if he got engaged a month after his wife’s death would you still say this?

You’re on a fucking gossip site where people pass judgment on things that are none of their business all the time. Spare me the sanctimonious attitude.

Why do you people act like a year is an eternity? A year feels like five minutes when you’re an adult with responsibilities. If you can move on to another marriage a year after being widowed, clearly their loss didn’t hurt that much.

Sure, Jan.

So if your husband remarried literally two weeks after you passed, you wouldn’t find that suspect? Really?

You’re on a gossip site and you’re telling others to stay out of people’s business? HA!