I was once invited to a super posh house for a party and, no joke, it turned into a sex party as the sun set. In hindsight, as I left quickly, I realized how much of the house seemed designed for exactly that type of thing.

Musk is either lying through his teeth, or he’s one of those smart people who has no real-world intelligence whatsoever. Because I have known people who can do things like attend a sex party and then go “oh my god, is THAT what was happening?!” in total earnesty.

I can totally picture myself going to a sex party and not really understanding what was going on. Pluse, WHITE fur? holy crap, the stains, and you know some of those people are still picking fun fur out of their various orifices.

The funniest part is, Rando is admonishing us that if we aren’t nice enough to the men here, we might lose such trenchant and helpful commentary as “wow, my wife thought this guy was probably a creepy predator and I minimized her concerns, but it turned out she was right! Wow!”

Like, I get that, in a perfect world, a dude should be able to walk into the lingerie section of Target and see what is up with the latest bralette trends or whatever. But I get to have a problem when he shows up (instead of the sales clerk) to answer my question about band sizes and has never worn a bra, had a pair…

This behavior is something that has always bugged me, although the content of what he says is okay. He has openly said that he’s on Jez all day at work and is very fast to make the first comment. Like, great, I guess, but maybe do that over on the NYT or Washington Post comments? Why intentionally dominate a feminist…

It’s pretty easy to figure out who the men are. Just look for the “As a man...” type comments, which are constant.

I regularly visit a women’s fitness subreddit, and it blows my mind how many men show up to offer “advice” on topics they have absolutely no authority on, such as sports bras, birth control, etc. It is just as exhausting when it happens there as it is on Jezebel.

Maybe instead of posting on every single article here they could join me over in the male dominated spaces like reddit where I’m trying to convince young men who are only hearing MRA propaganda that women aren’t their enemy. That might be a lot more helpful than cluttering up a woman’s interest site with things…

I know you weren’t intending to be dismissive, but man is it frustrating to express these things to male partners or friends only to have them say you’re mistaken.

And let’s not leave out all the enabling dinguses who are constantly fawning over these guys and boosting their comments.

But it does though. Have you not been paying attention? Hell, did you not read the article you just commented on? Women are just beginning to grasp the level at which we’ve been systematically been abused, excluded and denied career opportunities due to our gender. The last thing we need are a bunch of male hot takes,…

if I had a nickel for the number of dudes who have doubted my highly evolved creep-dar, I’d be a rich fucking woman.

This has been a continuous conversation for several months now. You can jump to defense if you want, but you have no context for the conversation so you’re adding nothing. Also, jujy is an attention whore who just always has to be there to flaunt his allies cred. On a site explicitly created for women, that’s annoying…

I think that, in the larger sense of the world, gender does dictate what people can do and where, and so when women carve out a little slice of the internet it would be nice if men didn’t take up quite so much space on it.

I mean, read the OP’s comment. This seems like a case of ...

You seem nice!

It’s not unusual for the top four or five comments to be from this tiresome pack of dudes who seem to think their banal opinions are absolutely indispensable.

And, as ever, the top two comments are from men who comment early and on absolutely everything.

“My wife’s Spidey -sense has always tingled about this guy being a creep.”