Best wedding I ever went to had no wedding party/bridesmaids/groomsmen. The money they saved on all the that stuff they spent on a wedding planner and it was seamless. Amazing food, great party, really well done. I think if you're not too hung up on having an ultra-traditional wedding (well, 'traditional' in the last…

Wow. What an arsehole. I know it must grate on you still that you did the speech but fuck it - you took the high road and you know what - at the end of the day she has to be herself and you get to be you - probably a much nicer, much better person.

That's pretty much the reason no one I know actually wants to be a bridesmaid. The last time I did it it was ridiculously expensive - and there just doesn't seem to be any understanding of this. It wasn't even that I couldn't afford it - definitely not the case - just the blatant disregard for common sense and such…

It does sound pretty shit but why couldn't the sister have some fun?