Staring this because I know lots of people who have great marriages in their 20’s.

I was studying abroad in China and my advisors thought it would be a fun field trip to go to a commune (I shit you not) outside of Beijing in the mountains so we could make our own Tofu and soymilk wilderness style. The dragonflies are the size of crowbars. I don’t do well with bugs, I don’t like to kill them, but I…