Why would you prefer it? I'm not trying to be argumentative; I'm just curious, and there aren't a lot of guys on here.

I just thought of this in light of the number of commenters saying things like I figured I'd take my husband's name since I hated my father/my father didn't raise me/my father was a piece of shit etcetera. It kind of made me wonder why people are living with their father's names in the first place.

That's what I was going to say. I can sort of understand the desire for the whole family to have the same last name, but in that case why not use the wife's?

I can't imagine ever taking another name. My name is my name. It's...me. And if I marry, that's not going to change.

Anne Hathaway makes a lot of vapid statements. I remember she once explained being a vegetarian saying "I don't believe in eating anything with a face". Even a Vogue reader wrote a letter to the editor complaining about them putting such a moron on their cover.

Context is everything. And unfortunately, that makes arbitrary rules like this really unhelpful. I can see instances where a nineteen year old having sex with a sixteen year old would be really inappropriate, even though it's a small age difference. It depends on maturity level, (social/economic) power imbalance, a…

The more Anne Hathaway talks, the less I like her. She always seems to sound smug or like an idiot, or even worse, both.

I wasn't supposed to drink tonight, but you've driven me to it...

Apparently, George hated her. Glad she's in a real (or more real) relationship.

How is that man a "downgrade" from anyone, let alone a smug, too old for me but still bloody insecure committment-phobe?

I thoguht it was because of the Scientology angle.

I think this is in reference to the fact that the most effective way to lose weight is to consume fewer calories. I've been reading a lot about this lately, ie. how running for an hour will barely burn off a latte and a donut, and to lose weight you're better off just not having the latte and donut in the first place.…

I've never met a guy who was uncomfortable with a sex toy. Why would they be? It's less work for them to do.

Safe sex is the responsibility of both partners.

Um, you know that everybody who has a job works for money, right? Smugness and judgment don't pay the bills.

"A girl like her"? Kim Kardashian might be a vapid narcissist with a voice that makes me want to commit suicide, all of which are good reasons not to marry her. But since you followed up with a comment about strippers and gold diggers, I think you might be referring to something like her sex tape. And her sex tape is…

I think that's probably subjective. But even so (and I do think she looks healthier than I've seen her look lately), someone can look great and be falling apart. She just got sentenced to jail (and it's about damned time!) I'd hardly say things are going great in LL's world. Though maybe —hopefully— some time in the…

I don't really understand the fascination with blue eyes. They can be nice, but so can a fiery green, or a rich brown, or a warm hazel. Now that I think of it, I think most of the men I'm attracted to have brown eyes, actually. I love looking into a pair of warm, friendly eyes.

Well that was a horrifying read. On a positive note, that's a gorgeous photo of Otis. And on a more random note, Linda Evangelista seems to have terrible taste in men.

I knew there was a reason I liked Scarlett Johansson.