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Failure is the most important step to reaching success, but it can still feel like it's crushing your soul. To make

I must say. I love, love, love this:

I must assert that the first example has a typo in Aggressive. How am I doing so far?

The problem with "ask for forgiveness, not permission", is that asking for forgiveness may cost you your job... but asking for permission will rarely get you fired, even if the permission is denied...

Force yourself into social situations you wouldn't ordinarily go into. My main benefit (in changing from a stereotypical high school nerd) was that I volunteered at my local fire department. Talk about life changing! It was sink or swim with all the big personalities around. I swam, and I've given other kids (who

Thanks. I'm your age, actually. It wasn't so much deciding what I wanted to be, but who I wanted to be. I wanted to be the guy people could count on, but also be someone who fought for what he wanted (having been trampled on a lot as an awkward kid). I was always rather empathetic towards people, so going into a

I absolutely agree that assertiveness can be learned. In High School I started acting like who I wanted to be, rather than who I was at the time, and started asserting myself and what I wanted. I've been immensely successful since then, and am legitimately no longer the shy nerd who couldn't talk to anyone who