There was one guy I dated that would do that. Finally one time I just told him “If you stop what you are doing right now, I will fucking murder you!”. It worked..... And we laughed about it later.

There is no such thing as someone who says they’re good in bed who is actually good in bed.

There is an old saying:

We thought we were at the bottom until we heard the knocking from below....

Yeah, try again.

It’s just a complete, inexplicable coincidence that a guy who absolutely never raped a woman would be encouraging girls to be silent, right?

Rapist scumbag thinks women should be “quiet”. Shocking.

Man, someone really took their time to make an account just to defend this asshole.

Nothing inspires self-confidence like being told in your young and malleable years to shut up, expect nothing, accept what you get, and let the men tell you what that will be.

Is your name Jimbo? Or are you actually Jameis Winston? Only some jackass that needs this d-bag, or that d-bag himself would be this delusional. Yeah, he didn’t get convicted because the school basically helped him weasel his way out of it so he could keep winning them foosball games for them. That’s what happened.…

Never raped anyone in my youth. Sorry. That shit is on him and will be there for the rest of his life. Only people that defend rapists are rapists.

Sexism aside, I’d like to note that the “live your dream/if you can dream it, you can do it/I can do anything” is actually pretty bad advice.

Oh lordy don’t get me started on those women. Especially here - people will get mad. I have a really hard time understanding or believing that, but like you said, of course it’s happened to somebody. I personally think you ought to give a friend a bit more of a chance than that - sometimes people are busy, phones…

No, I’m talking people who straight up haven’t met ever. Obviously the situations you mentioned in your last comment are a totally different thing. Google it. I’m telling you, it does happen, and those people do very much believe they are in an actual relationship. And sometimes they actually work out - I’m guessing…

The last thing I am is silent and gentle.

I’ll be polite, but only to the extent that someone is polite to me. The minute you start to dictate to me or my daughters how we’re supposed to be based on our gender, politeness goes out the window. I didn’t survive through several long years of systematic sexual abuse and…

I was joking. It obviously didn’t land. :( Back to the comedy drawing board for me!

I think you have the right attitude. But I’ve come to feel that even casually meeting someone from online can be a “waste of energy.” I used to be more accommodating, but I now turn down a good 98% of the people who have wanted to meet via OKCupid. I’m just not sure it’s the way to go anymore. I’ve begun to suspect…

Because many humans in 2017 are incapable of face to face communication.

I think you can be both, but the concept of traditional marriage is pretty inherently “non-feminist”.

Do you know about the British governement cats? They don’t belong to the leaders but rather to the buildings/departments. There’s one for the pm residence but also a few others.

Yeah. In my fantasies, I’m that kind of person. Blissfully living a life unburdened by the everyday scrabbling of ordinary humdrumery.