We all see what you’re doing here, and it’s intellectually phony, especially on this day, which is a celebration of a specifically African American civil rights leader.

Adoption can be a years-long, expensive and emotionally grueling process, and in many cases there is a period of time during which the birth parents can change their mind and get the kid back. Lots of kids need homes, but most prospective parents are reluctant to adopt any child other than a healthy infant, leaving…

Society is wrong. I’m sorry.

This woman had a miscarriage. It does rough things to your brain.

It’s something that should be talked about WAY more

I may get flamed for this, but we really need to address the misogynist tendencies in the gay (male) community. Thriving off of stereotypical female behaviors, emulating them, and then subsequently denigrating the straight, lesbian, or bi women that may display them is disgusting.

Look, I get that you think you’re helping, but you’re not. When you say things like that, you are actively hurting the person you seem to think you’re helping. Stop.

As someone who was both beaten, kicked, punched to a pulp and “spanked”: it didn’t make ANY FUCKING difference. They were all damaging and assaults on my personhood and value and degrading as FUCK. FUCK YOU for insisting that this is okay with children. Would you non-sexually spank a grown woman?!

Sure. But then we get into parsing flavors of hitting – what kind of hitting is good hitting, what kind is bad hitting. Which, will doable, is a bit of a difficult proposition.

Isn’t that the point of having children though? To take out your vindictive rage on the helpless? Read your bible.

Yet if you did the same thing to an adult, it would be assault.

Done With This Site is not vilifying people with a belief in the afterlife, just vilifying those who are arrogant enough to believe that it’s ok to tell a grieving person that they should also believe in an afterlife. The subtext of comments like this is “if you believed in an afterlife, you wouldn’t feel so bad.”

Shut the fuck up.

With all due respect, if you aren’t in the same church with someone keep your religious beliefs to yourself. They just stated what they believed and you just jumped in with a completely unnecessary religious assault because you believe you are right and they are wrong.

Just because you have “zero doubt” doesn’t mean that you are even slightly correct.

But don’t vilify people who believe in an afterlife. I have zero doubt that you will see your dad again in some capacity. Also that he is in a different place. Zero doubt.

Really? Not appropriate. AT ALL.

I mean, I am only speakingfor myself, but as someone who has attempted and is still in therapy trying to cope with the thoughts and desire to kill myself, I don’t see it as a reset or anything. I see it as a relief from the pain and because I am tired. I don’t want to hear from people saying that it will be better. I…

Does she even weld, bro?

K: My biggest tip is not to compare yourself to anybody else’s body!