You nailed it.

You can do this. And, once you get the hang of paella, it can easily become a staple upon which you can riff depending on your ingredients at home.

Just my type!

“I didn’t cheat on you, I got shit injected in my lips okay?”

If two douches fall in a club, do they make a noise if nobody tweets about it?

Do you mind talking about your “work”? I love, love hearing about minor tweeking here and there. I feel like it’s such a hush, hush subject. I think she’s touched up a tiny bit here and there. She looks gorgeous; before and after.

Upper lip and maybe just a little bit in the cheeks? She may have opened up her eyes a teeny tiny bit with botox? She is very young and absolutely gorgeous so I think that the interruptions to her normal aging with fillers has been very, very minimal but I see some “tweeking”. She looks good, though, before and after!

How many points are they tho?

Oh, for fuck’s sake, Oprah. Stop it.

To be honest, I feel the same way. I love Obama, voted for him twice and would vote for him a 3rd term if I could. That being said, he and Michelle totally overdo it with the celebrities. I’m used to it now, but shortly after he was elected it used to bother the hell out of me.

I ... also think it’s weird as fuck that Obama is going to be on Bear Grylls.

Choice feminism is garbage.

Hit a sore spot?

My girlfriend shaves pretty much all her hair (minus her head) because she hates how it feels and looks. how is that anti-feminsit

Whatever about taking your husbands name but wearing an engagement ring is absolutley about telling the world that you got a man and he wants to marry you.

Re: the issue of what surname the children will take, I am intrigued that no one else seems to share my opinion, which is that all children should take the mother’s last name (which she should, of course, retain) because she’s the one doing all the work of conceiving, gestating, and birthing the little darlings.

I get that you want to think of yourself as a “feminist,” but at some point, that word loses all meaning when applied to people who fully and happily capitulate to patriarchal traditions. If you find “feminist choices” so exhausting all the time, perhaps it’s because your beliefs and attitudes aren’t particularly…

Just tell them that the kids will get your last name, since you did all the work conceiving, carrying, and birthing them.

You don’t think that all those things are part of a patriarchal system that defines femininity and polices how women should look?

Thank you for this piece, Jia. I’ve long been bothered by how many women choose to take their husband’s last names as well. Yes, I also subscribe to the Church of You Do You and try not to judge but when a) the tradition of taking his name is based on a history of the bride technically becoming a man’s legal property,…