Guitar movements, lol I hear that. I’ve been with a lot of musicians and a lot of the guitar players do what they’d do on a guitar.

Grown ass adults with sexual experience can usually tell if there’s potential or if it’s not worth trying again.

I love giving blow jobs but my ex went down on me four times during our relationship so that’s how many he got. We’re still casually in touch and every time I mention dating someone he whines jealously about how much cock I’m sucking. And I’m like yep, I love sucking dick, and I do it enthusiastically for all these…

Something like 80% of women never orgasm from intercourse so no, it’s generally not “the idea”.

A man would never put a woman’s feelings before his plessure.

I tell them if they ask.

Sigh. I don’t know. It’s so frustrating. And these aren’t necessarily bad guys who don’t care. (Though some certainly are). The one I mentioned above who I pushed away and left was really into me. He kept apologizing, wanted me to enjoy it, wanted to try again, wanted to start a relationship. And maybe if I was in a…

It’s not necessarily better when you’re in a relationship. My ex goes on about our “amazing sex life” and I’m like Dude, what? Your penis doesn’t even work.

It’s like people who say they’re “classy”. Saying it means it can’t possibly be true.

It’s almost like they don’t want us to enjoy it.

She didn’t say “every single lover”.

I’m pretty upfront about what I like and don’t like. With a recent partner I repeatedly positioned his fingers where I wanted them and at one point stopped and told him and showed him again. Every time he’d be like Yeaaaaah baby you’re so fucking hot and immediately go back to what he was doing before. I got so…

My biggest sex peeve recently is that my partners simply refuse to believe that I didn’t orgasm. They take the slightest “oooh yeah” as coming. I don’t fake and I don’t lie. If they ask me afterward if I came and I didn’t I’ll say no, and add that it felt great or I was close, if that’s true. But often they just won’t…

I work with a woman who’s had a “boyfriend” for fifteen years who comes over to her place every few months to have sex with her. They’ve never even gone out in public together. It’s none of my business and if it works for her, awesome (there are times in my life when that’s all I want from a man) but I think it’s…

I guess it’s like those women who go to the hospital with bad abdominal pain and wind up having a baby. I know it exists but it’s very hard to believe.

I’m sorry that that’s happening. It could be for any number of reasons. (I think the most common is that they’re fresh out of a relationship and not really ready but want to “see what’s out there”). All you can do is what you’re doing, which is move on when they don’t seem interested.

Wait! I just got it!!

Obviously I’m not talking about relationships involving people in the military or couples separated by war or some political or environmental disaster. I know that there are people in real relationships who haven’t seen each other in years. I can even imagine a genuine relationship beginning online or via letter in…

I didn’t mean you, specifically.

Oh I still ignore 95 out of 100 men who contact me and from there I might only meet one of every 25 who asks. I’m very choosy about who I meet. Maybe one guy every two weeks, if I’m actually in the mood to meet anyone. I just don’t waste any time even then.