I think people put far too much pressure on themselves. I hear of women excitedly going on about a “date”, getting their hopes up, getting their nails done. They’ve never even seen this guy! Save that for the second date. Which is actually the first one. Online dating is like a filter to see who you might want to…

Fine, but in that case you’re not dating them. I prefer to communicate with people by text too but if some dude on a dating site just messaged me all the time and never suggested we meet and rejected my suggestions that we meet, I’d just assume he was a lonely elderly man or married or in jail or something.

Well as you say, you’re a man who’s sexually into women, not men. I’m a straight woman. I fuck men. All men look hotter bald.

My peers aren’t even particularly career focused. We were all in school until our late twenties and have traveled and dated and just lived our lives. I know of one woman who got married in her late twenties and even she refers to herself as a “child bride” and a “freak”. In my world, settling down before 35 is…

I’m meeting a guy tomorrow after work. He messaged me on OkC a couple of weeks ago and I read his profile and messaged back, then he wrote something else and I said Can we just check each other out in person and continue this conversation over a drink? But then we were both busy and had to reschedule a couple of…

Nah, I’m sure it’ll be great. Or if not great I’m sure he’s at least a real person.

Why are you talking to him and not meeting him?

How does it even happen?

I’ve done online dating since it first began and have never met a man who didn’t want to meet. Like I’ve heard from thousands and every single one has asked to meet, most almost immediately. What am I doing wrong?!

Many men get weird, and I’d say some are even mean. And yeah, it sucks.

Because it’s hot? All guys are hotter when they shave their heads, whether they’re actually bald or not.

Even worse than Mariah is the fact that people actually like her.

This, exactly. Jews and Muslims have been living in harmony for centuries and still do in most of the world, including the Middle East. As usual, white Christians have no idea what’s going on.

This is what other places are like most of the time. Maybe another nice byproduct of this whole shit show is that Americans will realize that.

I’m 42 and most guys my age or older look like they’re going to have a heart attack after we fuck, so lately I’ve been dating men in their late twenties and thirties and it’s much more fun

Monosplaining? This is why people make fun of polyamorists.

You’re not “most” people. You’re just the loudest.

What?!

I think it can. Some people could never be intimate with more than one person at a time. They think it’s completely wrong and disgusting. Those people are monogamists.

I’ve often dated two or even three guys for a few weeks in that beginning stage and actually the “variety” is the part I dislike. I hate that they communicate differently, are into different things, kiss differently, fuck differently. I find it overwhelming and confusing.