I think that’s pretty standard in any form of communication. Unless I have tickets to something I probably just want to see them and we’ll figure out the “what” part later.

Because it’s a lie?

My main texting peeve is when people use lol as punctuation, ending literally every sentence with it: How are you lol. I’m great lol. Been busy lol.

She actually isn’t among most people.

Yikes. In my culture, the body is in the ground within sixteen hours. This is hard to fathom and I’m sure it’s not helping anyone get closure.

Ugh

I’m sorry. I now know.

Oh sorry.

I’m grey so I don’t think I can get someone out of them. Sorry if I did.

Hi! Go fuck yourself!!

I haven’t “had to” meet men. That implies some goal beyond just meeting them, which I’ve never had. I just like meeting people. Not everyone wants a relationship. But, as you say, it’s hard when people who do and people who don’t are using the same site and not being honest about their goals.

I find it sad that so many people have such bad experiences with online dating. I’ve been using it to meet people on and off for nearly twenty years and I think it’s great. I’ve met probably close to two hundred men, many of whom were fantastic people, a few of whom turned into romantic partners or just good friends…

I’m sorry you’re sad.

Sex, usually.

Really? I live in Europe and find the advice quite basic.

We generally don’t, honestly, but I’m sure she’ll be fine.

Most people suck. Even those who aren’t terrible will not go out of their way to be kind and they will often take an opportunity to be cruel if they think they can get away with it.

She’s so trashy it’s hilarious.

She’s just as horrible. Just went to finishing school and has better hair.

Good. She’s a cunt.