Do you really need “evidence” that an influential billionaire is attractive to women? Really?

If you think Spitzer can’t get laid without paying, you’re a moron.

You implied that he has to pay for sex. I was correcting that assumption.

He's an awful person but plenty of young and beautiful women will fuck him for free. Or maybe not exactly for free, but after some expensive dinners and shit.

It’s very hard to keep a man’s secrets when he thinks he’s invincible and won’t take the most basic precautions.

I find the cover shot kind of...vulgar, which feels odd to say, given how trashy many of their covers are.

I have seen some absolutely stunning pictures of Graham and this is just...not one of them.

I have seen some absolutely exquisite photos of her. This is not one of them.

She's an unbelievably gorgeous woman but she's not relatively skinny. And that's just fine.

I’m not even going to engage with that other person anymore so I’ll just preach to the choir...

Thanks for all your comments.

Do not get into relationships? Ever?

I actually thought we’d put the issue to rest with her comment ending in “nice chatting with you”, but when I logged in many hours later she’d written another essay awhile after that condemning my use of the expression “like the plague”. Bizarre.

The long and short of it is that I wasn’t attracted to my ex and he was terrible in bed. Sex is not that important to me, and I loved other things about him, so I decided to stay in the relationship, have regular sex for bonding or maintenance purposes and encouraged him to find pleasure in other ways. I guess you’d…

I’m not sure why you’re concerned about labeling my sexual desire or lack thereof. I’m not.

Sexuality and sexual desire aren’t black and white. It’s not like people always want sex or never do. People and relationships change. It’s not as simple as writing an OkCupid profile that says “I’ll never want to fuck you, just an FYI before we meet”. For many people, women in particular, desire is dependent on a lot…

I consider myself very sex positive. And also realistic. I wasn’t that attracted to my ex but I loved a lot of things about him and us. I communicated about sex and my needs or lack thereof constantly. I was willing to have an open relationship. I was happy to have sex with him once a week, give or take (which is…

I think many people who don’t enjoy sex do enjoy cuddling and being intimate in other ways. I certainly do.

No, sorry. I gave him every option, including leaving. Maybe he should have been an adult and left me, or had sex with someone else, instead of insisting on staying together and making us both miserable. We all need to look out for ourselves.

If the other person is suffering and not getting sex elsewhere or leaving the relationship, then that’s his/her problem.