What I meant is that I could see myself being in a LTR without sex and not suffering. She obviously is, and they have no plans to marry, so I agree that it's messed up.

Well, yes, this particular situation sounds messed up. Like I said, they sound like a bunch of famewhores more than anything: he's getting off on this control or misogyny or religious shit, she's getting off on her suffering, and they're both getting publicity.

For me, the operative word here is “desire”. If they truly want each other and are abstaining until marriage, but have no imminent plans to marry, and aren't teenagers or virgins, yes, it's odd and likely messed up. Personally I could see myself happily in this situation, but I wouldn't be whining about my desperation…

Well, there are asexuals in long term relationships. In my view, if they’re upfront about their lack of desire and communicate with their partner, then it’s all good. The partner can take it or leave it.

Wait, what? I’m fucking selfish because I don’t have sex against my wishes? Here at Jezebel we’re pretty against women being forced to have sex when they don't want to.

Why what?

I avoid sex like the plague and I’m not gay.

I think they're both kind of average looking.

Why on earth would she say that? As opposed to like “Hey!” or “Ouch” or “Get the fuck off me!”

I don’t know who she is or anything about her but that picture of her face doesn't make it that hard to believe.

It just seems juvenile, that's all.

You do you and all, but doodling hearts and using 4 for “for” seem like they should stop by about fourteen.

My ex boyfriend was circumcised as an adult. It was his choice, so it’s a different matter, obviously. But he had plenty of sex both ways and says there’s no difference.

The “problem” being that I’m so opposed to male circumcision that I’m estranged from my family? I’m on your side, man.

I’m completely opposed to male circumcision. Don’t care if a man is or isn’t and honestly usually don’t even notice.

All of the “bisexual” women I know seem to fool around with women but end up in (very traditional) relationships with men. Which kind of blows my mind, because if I was even the slightest bit sexually attracted to women I’d never bother even talking to a man again. I can't imagine choosing men if I had a choice.

He's always been a repulsive, pretentious creep, in my opinion.

You're very welcome!

I don’t claim to be.

Wow, you’re so edgy.