I know, I read something about how scientifically, biologically, nerve ending wise or something factual and undeniable sounding categorized spanking as a strictly sexual act and how confusing it was for children to be disciplined in this sexually arousing way and not just for the whole hitting shouldn’t be associated…

Yes! I went through a phase late in college and a few years after where I couldn't handle the attention. I shaved my head, shopped the men's department and basically tried to disappear in baggy clothes. Not even this stopped the un-solicited sexual advances and it took many years and a strong found-community to feel…

In 1949 a woman was spanked in public and it was declared to be love. As recently as 1963 (according to the dates here, possibly there are later examples) movies still considered spanking to be proper discipline for grown women. Tell me again how we don't need feminism? These dates don't make me think "ancient…

Did you flag my last reply? You can dish it out but can't take it huh? Typical.

And tricking J.Lo into unknowingly working with him using herself as the disguise.

So every time you have sex it goes something like "Oh my god my baby batter is about to burst, no god don't let my baby batter do what it's supposed to, oh god why does making baby batter feel so good, no god don't answer that literally." Sounds like a good time!

Every time you have sex you're hoping babies happen? How many children do you have?

Yes, they were all old, thanks for the update.

No, I’m sorry, I afterwards felt rude in my response but didn’t want to harass you by following up again unprompted. I guess I was a little offended and being accused of enjoying pedophilia. I did not feel that scene was titillating but can admit it was not portrayed as abusive or perverse. I can’t speak for how…

I found one from a friend and coworker from 5 years ago, I just replied with the number she was looking for, ha! The rest seem to be from pages I like, which I follow for a reason, I want their notes and updates. Just when I think FB couldn't get anymore lame...

Don't worry, at this rate any woman who has a period will have to pay a monthly failure fee for not getting pregnant by way of burying or cremating that which we dispel. Pretty much any and every month you could be expelling an unborn so it's better to give every cycle the proper respect and value just to be safe.…

So sad but true. One of the things I learned being open about it was that more people will be open with you with their similar experiences. Every woman this subject comes up with has their story. I think I would be more shocked by a woman claiming it never happened to her in any way shape or form.

Luckily I don't think the age group he's going for would recognize that word to respond!

I don't know that I am making it complicated so much as I feel you are making it too simple. This is recalling the whole debate over rape jokes in my mind. It's not so much that it shouldn't exist but that care must be taken in how it's portrayed. Rape, child rape, and a whole host of other horrible things happen and…

Yes, I have definitely come across both men and women in same sex relationships that have internalized patriarchal pressures and watched how that kind of conditioning can deteriorate even the most enlightened of relationships.

I was thinking of how men can be raped by women as well. Though I'd argue our disregard of rape crimes generally seem gender motivated.

Thanks for the reply. I guess I wasn’t really thrown off by anyone’s young ages based on my preconceived notions of what less enlightened societies were like. While I could agree that biologically a 13 year old brain may not develop any differently across vast spans of time, I can still imagine social conditioning was…

I get what you’re saying, truly it wouldn’t fly in this day and age, but women were chattel for a long time and still are in some places. Not only is GOT a fantasy land, I think we’d be doing ourselves a disservice to forget or rewrite how women were once property and only in the 70's won our right to even hold our…

ETA: didn't mean to come off as snarky as I sounded, honestly curious why that would be considered a win for the victim

Suddenly the whole story seems that much more traumatic for his victims.