Didi needs to take the L on this one, calling out specific ingredients not in a product is much more helpful for making informed decisions than saying who the audience is. Like “diabetic cookie” could mean anything, but “sugar-free” is pretty easy to understand. And some more-than-it-should-be percentage of people…

Again, my anecdotal experience...this is so true. Mostly it was the men pushing for the open RL...only to find that yeah, they weren’t the hot merch back on the scene they thought they were. Meanwhile, their wife\girlfriend pretty much had her pick of new partners. Honestly, I personally found that hilarious. Like…

Anecdotally, it seems like the best way to go about being in a poly/open relationship is to do so from the very start. Otherwise, one person usually ends up feeling left behind, or doesn’t gain as much from the openness as the other.

Cannot emphasize this enough. This was essentially how it was pitched to a friend of mind (“this is just who I am,” “I wish you could be open-minded about this”) and the relationship was over a few weeks later. There were other issues but hey - opening a relationship also isn’t going to fix existing issues! Shocking I…

Totally anecdotal here so take with all the salt necessary, but my observations of open relationships were overall negative. Most couples I saw simply couldn’t pull it off without someone feeling hurt, neglecte1d and\or jealous. The very few couples who seemed to make it work pretty much stuck to being involved with…

if i didn’t already think “fuck this guy,” i fucking do now. FUCK THIS GUY! FUCK THE POLICE! BREONNA TAYLOR WAS ASLEEP IN HER BED AND NO AMOUNT OF OBFUSCATION OR PANDERING IS GOING TO SOMEHOW MAKE HER (OR HER LOVED ONE) RESPONSIBLE FOR HER OWN GODDAMN MURDER. i hate the police. i am so tired of them. this is how i…

We were discussing that in my use of force class yesterday. Pretty much the agreed consensus was that a 20 year careerist mistaking her Glock for her Taser (especially if she was following policy, and had her Taser on the opposite side of her duty belt than her pistol) didn’t just deserve to lose her job, she deserved…

My wife and I are on a “speak it into existence” plan, just spending more and more time discussing the possibility, comparing various countries, reading about other expats experiences, and really just trying to figure out just how to make it work. Kids are grown and gone so our primary concern is our two dogs (they’re…

Honestly, can’t blame you a bit.

If I was truly interested in public safety and preserving life. not to mention the law, which is after all what police are supposed to be interested in, I would be adamantly opposed to a minor illegally possessing a gun illegally crossing state lines with the expressly stated purpose of acting as an extralegal…

This country is so fucked, another mass shooting today, I’m packing up my family and moving to Mexico.  That’s 45 mass shootings in 30 days.  More than most countries have in decades.  And supporting this piece of shit from cops and paramedics?!  Tell me we aren’t fucked.  

You know who supports and sympathize with murderers? Other murderers.  Fire them. 

I was scrolling through Twitter when the video on loop, without trigger warning, popped up, showing this child being executed and I nearly fainted. I cant imagine what it must feel like for his parents and people that knew him.The trigger happy cop didnt even like stop for a SPLIT second to make a decision, he just…

True about Jared Leto, and to be fair, I’d be pissed about Lady Gaga playing anyone I cared about but I was reading about this last night: all of the objections (from this one second cousin, by the way), and I mean ALL, are strictly about appearance. Not casting, not acting ability or the portrayal of character, just…

I’ve now done the annoying task of looking for photos of Aldo and Paolo Gucci. It’s hard to find photos of Aldo when he’s young, but I think I found one and, like, he’d be one of the “hot ones” in a room of congressmen. In photos when he’s the age that Al Pacino is playing him, he looks like a typical old white man,…

I’m going to need someone to read this story about Bob Saget and Candace Cameron Bure for me and then never actually tell me what it’s about because I don’t care and I don’t want to know.

In their defense, I'd be pissed if Jared Leto was playing anyone in my family too. He's a garbage person AND a garbage "actor."

I have nothing constructive to say. I would just simply like to say that the swimsuit Megan Thee Stallion is wearing works for me on so many levels.

Whether or not a person who was executed by police was armed or not is kind of an important detail. A prosecutor—an officer of the court—should know that. Misleading the court on that sort of basic detail is inexcusable and someone needs to be held accountable (spoiler: no one will be held accountable). If someone…

See the gun?