Hmmm. Darling fiance just called me. He's out on his motorcycle this evening before the weather turns to shit. Super jealous but ride on my man. Anywho, a giant suburban almost plows him and he pulls up beside them and taps on their window to ask if they saw him and to be more careful next time which is his usual…

Oh I’m so tired of people sticking up for monsters. My ex husband came back from Afghanistan and his alcoholism ramped up. He would choke me sometimes while intoxicated but I brushed it off because he’d been through so much overseas. After we had our DD he released what was always inside. I was getting beaten almost…

I wish you could have asked if those guys played sports in school and when they replied yes, you say, “well, if you can dodge a wrench you can dodge a ball!” and hurl a wrench at them. I would have been stoked of you were my mechanic but I'm a girl. I'm sorry you went through that. 

That woman is a goddamn treasure! Follow her on Instagram. She's a delight!

I adamantly chose not to breastfeed. I support breastfeeding and formula feeding. Fed is best. But this makes me tilt my head a bit. Girl, when do you get your body back?

My mother is full Native American and my father is from Ireland. I have dark skin but green cat eyes. Now my mother’s side was smart. They changed their names and got the fuck off the reservation and went into the oil industry. Many other families did too. They knew that the reservations were not a good thing. So what…

Honey, I feel you! I’m exactly half Native American and Irish. My mother is full Native American and my father is from Ireland. I have dark skin but green cat eyes. Now my mother’s side was smart. They changed their names and got the fuck off the reservation and went into the oil industry. Many other families did too.…

No sugar. Something made you reach out to your sisters here on Jezebel. We don't want to watch you become a statistic. We've been through it ourselves and narrowly got away or knew a loved one that didnt survive. You're going through it now and we're telling you to run baby girl. Run as fast as you can when you can.…

I know babe. But even if it is slow going, collect small things you can put into storage or at a friend's or family member’s place. Even keep a small bag in the trunk of your car with clothes, toiletries and other things in case you need to split in a moment. Play it sweet and act normal. Show nothing is wrong. 

I'm going to have to second Dia on this honey. My ex husband was incredibly physically abusive and almost killed me twice. Those types of incidents are not isolated! It's not like you made a delicious dinner and dropped the main dish all over the floor and let out a frustrated scream. That's understandable. He hurt…

As a teen we had a bunch of ragers being in the south and everyone having a lot of land. I went home years later and went to another rager complete with bonfire. I got so smashed and according to everyone there, I stripped completely naked, ran off into the night laughing hysterically.

Oh honey, if you can get a large piece of wood or a bar and put it on the door if the lock is broken. 

Last year whilst my fiance was out of town, my daughter is asleep in our bed and I’m browsing Netflix. Late at night, mind you. The house is locked up tight and all of a sudden his now dearly departed dog stands up and bristles near the bed. All of a sudden, the door slowly opens and she starts barking like mad. I…

A part of me wonders what would happen if you didn't back down from sexual harassment and instead countered it with a yes, but I only peg and brutally. But then again I've been targeted for being a too outspoken woman and treated awful but still a fantasy. 

My fiance’s ex girlfriend who’s a literal nut case, whiny pity party narcissist looks just like her. Add 160lbs and dirty stringy hair and you have his ex. I hate those thin lipped bitches. Score one for my fiance for going team Native American women!

Our mastiff will stand watch for you. Oh honey I feel you. Last week, baby CDC was in the hospital with a raging fever. We both have HIV contracted from my psycho ex husband and her in utero because he didnt tell me. I was stressed and exhausted. I knew the next day I was going to be a mess while trying to care for my…

So 8th grade going on freshman year I dated a guy that looked eerily like Tom Segura but thin and without the beard and charm and humor. He was my first and being in a dumb idiot I wrote about it in my journal. My mom found it and went to his mom’s to confront her about us. My mom is a crazy right wing religious nut…

Got to hangout with my sweet neighbor lady today. She’s an old biker lady and she hates trump and his kind. She has hope that is millenials will change things and have the Republicans running scared. I love her more by the minute. But I do wonder what future historians will say about this time.

Nicki Minaj?

My divorce was very different but I recommend not panicking. Focus on your baby and be excited about decorating your own new place. That now is going to be a fun and exciting time full of rebirth and new adventures that don’t involve someone else’s bullshit and making them care for their own child. I know it's hard to…