No. I don’t think it does. You came from a woman,who used a sperm bank to have you. End of story.

Surely there is a way to give them this info without your donor kid coming to find you. Maybe the bank can act as a go between and you anonymously provide the info. Or you provide it when donating and the parents get it. Or you do what I do and just live without knowing your dad’s medical history. Somehow I’ve made it.

My husband works for Chipotle. He over sees 9 restaurants. He said that the bowl with tortilla on the side is FAR preferable to a burrito with 4 lbs of food stuffed into it. He also said no one cares if you ask for a little more food. Just ask....can I get a little more chicken? You will get it. If you ask for extra…

Amen.

...yeah. Maybe go meditate, take some deep breaths. Go for a run! I promise your world isn’t ending because you completely misunderstand what one person on the internet thinks about something that doesn’t impact anyone’s life.

I am so sorry. A friend just went through this and it was so God awful hard. Peace be with you while you wait.

This is so incredibly beautiful.

You are really passionate about this. I think it’s time to step away from the computer.

I worked at an outdoor store. I spent...I shit you not..six hours with the worst people ever trying to outfit them for a backpacking trip. They called me “girl”. they threw things at me. They told me they were happy that I didn’t make commission. They hated everything, was angry that backpacks for long trips don’t…

OH MY GOSH this isn’t true at all. I remember spending hours with horrible customers. You don’t even get a damn tip after lol

I actually loved working retail. I like making people happy and talking with them. But oh my God the flip side of this is working with the largest pieces of crap on the planet sometimes. Like...what possesses someone to SCREAM in your face “GET THE FUCK AWAY FROM ME” when they have been looking at shoes and shoes is…

It’s not wrong to admit you need a break. And him being the good guy would be to acknowledge her needs for personal time as well and then fulfill that. I have an 18 month old. We make sure we are both taken care of by acknowledging what each other needs and making it happen.

Because the withswaitstaff TOTALLY has control over how fast food comes out.

Two adults,a dog and toddler learning to eat with utensils. I mop once a day. If we don’t we get ants. Trash 1-2 times a day due to diapers. Don’t underestimate how small children undo your cleaning within 7 seconds of finishing it.

...they might.

Ya know....if he had called and said I know I went running but I really need a breather. If I do this today, would you like a break tomorrow?

We have a twice a month house cleaning. It ensures the bathrooms stay decent, the baseboards don’t collect gunk and the floors get a serious deep clean. we still mop daily, clean toilets weekly, do loads of laundry, clean the kitchen and do dishes daily, trash 1-2 times a day...it is just enough to ensure the place…

They have a house cleaner twice a month and a sitter so she can work. even this help isn’t making that large of a dent in the work load.

Yeah this is creepy as hell and she needs time

We want to leave. One day....we shall escape. what kind of reputation do we have?! 😑