Ok are we almost over this shit yet? The cultivated life? Goop? Can this end already?

Birth isn’t always a predictable event. Maybe they did leave immediately and got caught behind an accident then things progressed quickly. After your first, babies comefast. it was her third kid, obviously her pregnancy ended well and she is a pro at birth. Oddly, if you show up at the hospital too soon YOU GET SENT…

I’ve spent many a night chilling T her place, looking at dudes on her profile. And many of them will clearly state they want younger women. I doubt that she is THE ONLY woman in her 30’s running into this issue.

How did this even HAPPEN?! Who called for help? Why was the woman ARRESTED and not allowed to explain? I am so mad.

See I would think there would be more people like you.

She isn’t on Tinder and she doesn’t want just sex at this point. It’s like she isn’t old enough for it to be “hot older woman, young guy”

It’s possible. She spent her 20’s in grad school, traveling, dating. She is a wonderful person. She has had relationships just never anyone she felt she wanted to marry. It makes me sad someone would judge that so harshly.

my totally gorgeous, successful, 32 year old friend does online dating. She does meet men this way but yea....the majority want well under 30. She is open to ages...27-45. It is slim pickings. She says she has been told,point blank “too old”. At 32. Men her age and older. 32 isn’t too old FOR ANYTHING in life

Yeah....this happens long before 16. I remembered getting cat called at 11.

I want to punch this man in the face.

Hey now. Attractive older men can’t be seen with anyone above 30. That’s just gross.

No way. I love my dog just as much as before I had a kid. if you can love two kids you can love a pet and a kid.

Saw this today and I loved it.

You are right. They did. And it makes them far better people.

It’s a weird line to walk....understanding and giving regard to someone who does horrible things. Because when you do that, normally you find yourself maybe thinking “well this makes sense, I get it...it’s not so bad.” Except sex crimes are HORRIBLE and should never, ever be tolerated, EVER under any circumstance. A…

I felt the same way at first. But you do realize after a time that they are human, carrying spectacular amounts of torturous baggage that is keeping them to continue a disgusting cycle they don’t know how to end. It’s awful and sad, what we do to each other.

I’ve worked for a while with sex offenders. And the ones I spent time with had horrifying childhoods. Like grew up squatting in crack dens, prostituted out starting at the age of 3 until 18 for drug money, forced to be in child porno...beaten, neglected....like the most awful, tragic, tortuous things you can possibly…

I was trying to wash a beetle down the drain and watching it try to live made me cry. So I scooped it up and set it free outside and felt better about things.

YES. I got like no sympathy when I was sick. if I had a bad day or was upset over something they didn’t feel was worthy I’d get mocked. Basically they sorta just let life roll me the fuck over without much support, understanding or reasonable advice. I know my grandparents were abusive by today’s standards. It’s like…

I come from a family that lacks empathy. As a result I have a ton of it. My mother is so horrifically judgmental that I have refused to speak to her for long periods of time until she apologized and did something to grow as a human being. I used to think I was related to a bunch of psychopaths. I realize now though…