That's so true. There was a line on my order of protection that said something along the lines of my ex being allowed to come to the house to get his belongings. No other details ... just those words. My ex took that and RAN with it.

OMIGOD ... can I virtually hug you from over here? I have totally experienced this and it is the most frustrating feeling in the world.

I kind of disagree? I guess it's all based on our personal experience. In MY personal experience, asking for what I needed got me no where. Communication only works when both parties listen ... and saying, "I like when you do A ... I also like B and C." And being told no ... it's disheartening to say the least.

I've been divorced two years now. He tells everyone who will listen that I was frigid ... and most of the time, I just let it go. But there are a few people who know the truth ... that there is NO such thing as foreplay ... and when he isn't in the mood? Don't ask because sex doesn't exist. But when he IS in the…

I feel you. In the beginning my husband knew what I liked and made a point of making me feel special or doing something to get me in the mood. Something changed a few years in and it was like ... NO effort. I remember at one point he literally said, "Let's do it NOW." I hesitated and said, "But ... I'm not wet?" …

Me too! I was pleasantly surprised then ... not so much ... sigh.

When I was fourteen or so, my brother's first marriage was in trouble. He was married to this BEAUTIFUL girl. She was sweet and funny ... and no shit ... beautiful. He'd cheated on her ... SEVERAL times. I was old enough to know what was going on ... so one night when we were in Florida visiting with them, I…

Well ... you're totally right. At this point, he isn't doing anything but jetting around pissing off random people across the country.

I agree ... and I think it's especially telling that his manager referenced a "Michael Jackson Career Path." Michael Jackson ... music and talent aside ... was a money machine. His family lived off him ... "friends" .... everyone was invested in Michael Jackson the product ... not Michael Jackson the human being. …

I'll admit that's true ... in the book, you hear several times about Tysha ... whereas in the show she's only mentioned once or twice. So I agree it wouldn't be quite so shocking ... but the thing is ... I read it as ... Tywin hated his son SO much ... for "killing" his wife and being malformed ... that he refused to…

When I watched this episode, I was on pins and needles ... waiting for the moment that Jamie admits the awful lie. And then ... nothing. A hug goodbye? Are you kidding me? When it was over, my boyfriend asked why I was so disgruntled ... so I explained to him the way it twas SUPPOSED to be ... leading up to…

Exactly! And that conversation, to me, is the wedge that comes between Cersi and Jamie. Tyrion telling him about her having sex with other men - knowing Jamie had never had anyone but Cersi - causes Jamie to obsess over it. He refuses to help Cersi anymore ...

Spoilers - to those who haven't read the books and don't want to know ...

I'm over 30 ... but my three step-daughters, all mid-twenties LOVE Frozen. I haven't seen it yet ... but I'm going to get around it ... eventually. Probably when it's free on Starz in July .

I'm waiting for the inevitable Brandi/LeAnn reality show. I met my ex husband years after he divorced his first wife, but he convinced me she was evil and totally built this "us against her" scenario. I loved my step-daughters ... and it was because of them that I caught on.

I have a neprhologist named "Dr. Merry Downer" ... no lie.

After my Dad died, I had a brief stint with depression ... and this feeling of need. I needed there to be more. I needed there to be a message. So I actually looked into John Edwards and a few other psychics because I considered paying good money if someone could get me the closure that I needed. Everything I read…

That's what I came here to say ... the books are so much more graphic. I can't count how many times someone is being raped, is in danger of being raped, or is fearing their inevitable rape. Seriously, it gets ridiculous. Let's take Brienne for example ... almost every confrontation with an attacker of any sort…

I'm SO sorry for your loss. It will be nine years on June 13th ... one week before Father's Day. I dread Father's Day now ... :(

I didn't watch King of Queens until it was on reruns. I caught a rerun one day and thought, "This is kinda fun ..." and started watching. I remember telling my ex-husband, "Wow, I'm impressed ... they actually have a woman who is a little chunky with a chunky man ... instead of having him married to a model!" We…