yeah... :/

:( I wish I could just magically say something to help.

Aw, thank you so much Hntrss, that genuinely means a lot.

Oh gosh, I hate that our society teaches us that getting help is a shameful sign of weakness, especially for men. I'd be lying if I said I hadn't personally internalized that too.

maybe birds know the power behind meditation
maybe birds know the power behind breadcrumbs?
maybe birds know the power behind the perch!

this thread is giving me life!

I'm so sorry to hear about your situation with your dad — it sounds extremely difficult and lonely for you :( He sounds like he is really depressed. When my mum's parents were dying my aunt took the full burden of caring for them on, and it took such a toll.

I LOVE There Will Be Blood and will definitely be listening to that!! :)

oooo, I've never even heard of that — thank you!! :)

I completely know what you mean by too much, which is kinda why my listening dwindled. Also I remember really not liking a few of the guys he regularly has on.

"If I absolutely had to pick a side I would probably pick the vaxxers"

do you ever listen to improv4humans? I haven't been listening recently, but when I was Parham and St. Clair were on a lot.

hahah <3

hahahah yeah anti-vaxxer apologist anywhere, esp. on jezebel... mmm, yeah...

haha. same re: trying to comment a lot. Also trying to comment early. I've been on here i think for a little over a month, and I keep saying this is the week I'm just gonna give up on Jezebel because being grey kinda feels like I'm some dumb pest, ya know?

:D

so true, if I comment on gawker where I'm not grey, i make sure it's at least sort of funny or worthwhile, because I don't want to waste space/bother people

ha, for you or me?
I have a Twitter account that's just @random letters and a number, and then my display name or whatever you'd call it is just a "*" and I've never tweeted, I just use it to follow other accounts — it's way less personal than even kinja, where I often pretend I'm an actual dog

that's so wonderful!

"This is the internet. We love cats here."