One of the things that bother me about having an old ass father is the fact that my peers have had opportunities based on their dad’s military service and I have not. My father was born in 1919 and served in WWII. My peers were born in the early ‘70's with dad’s that served in Korea and Vietnam who received GI…

Casting agents should have used more code words and dog whistles.

Please look into the origins of the talented tenth. Also, the Deep South is where the talented tenth originated. The point of the talented tenth was for the most talented 10% of blacks to gain entry into white society or professional class, then lead the way for their darker brethren. Instead, they just concentrated…

Are you familiar with the talented tenth? There are generations upon generations of mixed blacks that will only mate with other mixed race blacks. Or whites. Im curious to see if your husband is of the Martha’s Vinyard/country club blacks.

I love this! BTW, Jack and Jill is mad hood now. I inquired about this for my kid and was appalled at the basic parents!

Yet, I cannot stand when there is a kid with one black grandparent insisting the kid is 100% black. I’m like, what happened to the other 3 white grandparents? It’s that line of thinking, that one drop of black blood makes you black, that leads to black people being accused of superhuman strength and their children as…

I’d watch with Khloe on the panel.

I’ve never acknowledged his last name on any paperwork. My daughter’s surname is hyphenated but I'll be damned if I waste my breath on those last two syllables!

I'm sorry this happened to you.

Then he needs to apply to all production companies. For any type of position. He’s a creative for goodness sake!

But his girlfriend is a true believer (and enabler). I bet she hates his daughter’s mother and blames her for everything.

Then is truly is an idiot. What, was he run out of California? Why live in expensive ass Portland, a place with no media outlets instead of near his child in an expensive place that pays well for talent? He could pay arrears with a couple of spec scripts.

I agree, it’s not easy. My ex was able to game the system because he comes from a family of deadbeats.

I don’t think so. My ex owes 12K+ in child support. Recently I learned he worked for the post office (daughter mentioned he wore a uniform) He now pays $212 a week, but it doesn’t decrease his arrears.

Yup! One of the reasons why I did it!

If he loses his job, he should go to the child support office to file for modification with proof he is unemployed. Proof like termination letters, unemployment income, etc. My daughter’s father was able to get it modified behind my back. I only knew he was no longer working when I took her to the doctor and the…

Perhaps. I wouldn’t know. My child’s father has never paid arrears!

No. All you have to do is immediately apply to the court for relief. It’s called child support modification.

But he is a writer. You don’t have to drive to an office to write.

Right? This is why he doesn’t make money!