Ha, I’m in Boston. I’m sure there’s a fair share of oblivious and/or selfish guys here, but I don’t think they’re my type.

Let’s be clear here... I am not complaining at all.

Yes... it hadn’t occurred to me before you and other posters pointing out that these women being interviewed are probably a lot younger than I am. I’m certain that factors in. I’m not fucking 24 year olds.

I’m sure that’s it for a lot of guys out there, but I don’t think I’m generally attracted to that type. Maybe they’re too much fun to reject for me. ;-)

Yes, this is something. I am also in my 30s. GOD I LOVE MY 30s.

Do I just live in a weirdly progressive area? I don’t need to get off to enjoy sex, but I find most of the dudes I’ve hooked up with enjoy it more if I do get off, even if they don’t, and seem to work more towards that then their own orgasm. In fact, the last couple of guys I’ve tried hooking up with were more…

Weird coincidence, I just heard of this gal yesterday when a friend of mine received one of these delightful “I’d like to rape you” kinda messages. I don’t know where the fuck these dudes come from.

I got in a big fight with an ex-friend over this movie. He is a self-described film geek who majored in filmmaking at state college and moved to LA to sell DVDs for awhile. Oh, and manic pixie dream girls ARE HIS JAM. (He’s been obsessed with the idea of Natalie Portman for years.)

Yeah, what the fuck? Even if you end up being into a person during their secret time, it’s going to be an issue eventually.

I think I go too far in the opposite direction of disclosing my flaws to new people. I’ll readily refer to myself as a slut and a drunk. I feel like I’d rather exceed someone’s expectations than disappoint them? But then, I haven’t been in a relationship for four years, so maybe this isn’t a winning formula.

Seconded on the time wasting. I’d be pretty annoyed if a dude came out as a devoted Christian (or any other religion, really) a few dates in. I’m not, and I’m not going to be happy around someone who is. That seems like an important thing to not lie about.

Ha I’ve got a bunch of similar stories from back in the day. Now I mostly miss large family gatherings, so the small groups I see are a little more understanding.

I just find bacon revolting. It’s everything I’d imagine eating human flesh to be. Pigs are way too close to humans. I’ll pass.

Um, what?

Eggs, dairy, and fish. I make an effort to limit my seafood intake, but cheese. All the cheese for me (ok, all the cheese that doesn’t use animal rennet for me).

I’ve definitely gone weeks where I’ve had pizza for dinner every day. I am not ashamed.

I drink buckets of beer on a pretty regular basis and never crave meat either. Pizza, definitely, and one of my pubs has tater tots smothered in a homemade spicy cheese sauce OHHHH YES.

There’s only one kind of sausage I want when I’m drunk.

Yeah I can’t do toothbrush sharing. It’s meant for getting food bits and bacteria out of your teeth. My tongue doesn’t do that during kissing.

Well it wouldn’t be the same corral. Although I see so many people standing smoking in front of “no smoking” signs that I suppose it wouldn’t make much of a difference.