Not to be a pedant, but The Empress gin is my current fave, and it starts purple, then turns hot pink when you add acid. It’s also delicious.

You are allowed to decide to go off Phentermine! For one thing, it’s basically speed, so it’s doing some wild things to your body. For another, generally with things like phentermine, much or all of the weight comes back when you go off and have an appetite again and aren’t running around hyper.

So no, I don’t want a relationship with them.

Do any of you have any cute kid stories?

I don’t think it is. Either way, if they do consider it an issue and dip out then you probably didn’t want them to stick around anyways. They probably would have not been a good support during rough patches and might actually be detrimental.

Evening Jezzies, how are you all tonight?

My wife let me know fairly early on about her mental health issues. I’m glad she did because it helped me learn how to help her when the need arose.

I finally read this article, and thought about all of my past ‘soft no’s’ and conciliatory sex because it was safer to accept what was happening, than to try and actively stop it. When it would hurt, but I’d play along or zone out to make it go faster. http://theweek.com/articles/749978/female-price-male-pleasure

I know you already got your appendix out, as have I, but for Jezzies reading this, there is a simple test to see if someone’s pain is due to their appendix. It’s called the bounce back test. You press on the painful area. If it doesn’t hurt pressing down but does when you let go, it’s the appendix. Try it on your…

Good luck! I was my best friends MOH and was super nervous about giving my toast. I actually ended up totally winging it because trying to write it was making me so anxious. I can’t even tell you what I said at this point either but they’ve told me it was good.

I’m sure you’re not unloveable but what you are is too accommodating. The point of relationships isn’t finding someone to fix or help or assist, it’s finding someone as unbroken as possible and taking it from there.That way you’ll mostly deal with problems as they crop up in your relationship.

Hi, I just wanted to update from SNS last week (https://jezebel.com/1823109386) where asked about dealing with sexual harassment at work. I filed an official report with the EEO office at the company, who are starting an investigation, and then I quit my job. I know there are rules about retaliation, but I just did…

I was recently telling the following story to someone and had a big (sad) aha! moment.

In ‘Grief is weird, it’s been a month’:

I think that’s a fair statement but I also think it’s worth observing that there are kids in every school who struggle both at home and in their social environment who consequently develop these very violent thoughts and attitudes. Some of them reach their breaking point before they grow out of it and others don’t,…

Seriously. If the gun nut who brags about killing animals is ostracized I don’t think that’s a case of “bullying”.

Fuck that bullshit. Women, Black and brown people and LGBT people are harassed, beaten and treated like subhumans on a daily fucking basis and you don’t see us using “bullying” as an excuse to go out and kill a bunch of random people. Lashing out and wanting to commit acts of terror is a function of toxic masculinity.…

I remember when this story broke Marshall Faulk questioned how could a man allow himself to be bullied. Just because you are an athlete and perceived to have immense physical strength doesn’t mean you are naturally an aggressive person. The fact that Richie Incognito is still making a living in The NFL while Colin…

This is when you pray for someone. When they’re hurting, and before they hurt someone else. I hope he gets the help he needs.