You just keep blaming the victim. There is nothing else for me to say. You can be the toughest, hardest woman out there but if you can’t empathize then you can’t see my point. This discussion is over.

Sooooo... you give “empathy and sympathy” to Natalie who experienced these situations with black men only to shit on it as well as the other experiences of other black women because painting this picture is disturbing?

I was very guilty of this in my teens and early 20s, as I get older and become more incompatible with people I find it very easy to tell a dude “Cut it out or catch hands”

Truth. All of the men who have abused me were people I knew. Family, friends etc. These same men also don’t think they did anything wrong.

First, I want to say.. Sis, I’m so sorry that happened to you...These are numerous fucked up encounters and I’m glad at least one person albeit a white woman took you seriously and helped you.

i liked it.